Bravo.....I hope it all works for you....and that she proves worthy of your love ...blessings to you , for all you stand in need of.
Of course it isn't cheating. Why would I care if my husband masterbated over his computer instead of the toilet? Just keep the damned keyboard clean, please. I am not sure that I understand the appeal of cybering. In a bit of a twist, do one of you youngins care to teach the married mom? I do have a yahoo account and know how it works.
Virtually speaking... NEXT THING YOU SEE, VR DIVORCE.com The cybers' court. ...And that is where my headaches come from. Peace.
Personally I fully agree... Even if it not a physical act with another person, it is extremely unfaithful, not to mention very unnerving and painful to the significant other... Especially if there is no real need for porn or cybering if you're living together in a committed relationship when you can have sex whenever! From personal experiences, I believe that when one finds oneself drawn to search the net for some thread of porn instead of just waiting for their loved one to come home, that's very disresepectful to the other and makes them feel ugly, hated, and second hand...
definately dont think its cheating, though its not the best thing in the world to do, i'm guilty of it, and prob wouldn't be too happy about it if the other was doing it and found out, some things are better left unsaid ;P
I see it as cheating, if I found out my boyfriend was doing that I'd go ape. But then I also know he would feel the same if it were the other way round. I guess it just depends on the people in the relationship.
I see it as cheating, for the basis of it is still sex, maybe not 'doing' the act psyically, though it is still sex, therefore I beleive that it is still cheating
I voted no, it wasn't cheating; but I do also believe that it should be out in the open- and not hidden from one's partner.