Cyber Sex: Is It Cheating?

I would say is pretty much , cheating..you are still "nakd" flirting with another man.

 

Agreed. That means you have to discuss things out in the open from the very start.

 

of course it is and cyber sex is a joke anyway

 

Cyber Sex is worthless. Seriously, I tried having Cyber Sex with a girl I was going out once, it was soooo funny, it's a joke, how the hell can it be cheating? Is looking at porn cheating too?

 

I think its cheating if the two of you are activly masturbating to one another...whether on cam or in text.. but not if you are jsut talking about sex.. whether you get horney from it or not shouldnt have any bearing...its no diferent that reading erotica or looking at porn.. which i dont consider being unfaithful.. especially considering that my hubby and i reap the fringe benefits from it....

 

Hahaha...Well said Lassie !!!

 

I would leave my girlfriend if say i walk in and shes on her computer on MSN and had just typed, "i want your cock up my ass" or something like that to someone. And he has been saying simular things. You might think thats harsh but i see it as a form of cheating, especially if she is enjoying the convo. I dont agree with Earthmomma when you say its just like watching porn/reading erotica. When you watch porn or read erotica you never actually have a conversation with the people its about, and you cant cheat on someone from a movie or someone in a story can you? But when its communcation between two people and its cyber i think its cheating.

 

But you can read something and wish it...and want it bad...and cyber is reading ..unless you actually meet the person. E...your too young to worry about such things !!!

 

I know im just giving my opinion.

 

I know Baby.....love ya !!!

 

Ok..

So... Creating a situation of intimacy is cheating.. I'd go along with that.. And I'm ashamed to say I've done it.. But it felt sooooo good!

But just using somebody for a little gratification by remote control doesn't seem to hurt anybody? And the trouble is that this doesn't actually work for me becuase sex for sex sake is just not me..

Going back to my first paragraph... I need to set the scene.. It's like role play.. And I only consider it cheating because I really do find myslef wanting to do the things I'm describing.. But artistically, no, it's just a wonderful trip taken by two people who will never meet.

 

If my boyfriend did it I'd be pissed, I'm going to say cheating

 

You know....having given it somethought....if my beloved were to cyber with someone else...I would feel like it was cheating....so...I was wrong...please disregard my first answer !!!

 

I've done dungeon. Gladiator, servant (HAHAHAHA!!!!) and prisoner sex.. All these I don't think of as cheating!

But when I get tactile, and can almost feel the other person, that's sharing too much of yourself with somebody else, online or off...

 

Exactly.

 

Yep....you got me on that one Baby !!! I was wrong !!

 

No your not its just your opinion. Its up to you if you think its right or wrong.

 

That's exactly how I feel erzebet .

I am trying really hard to get a new relationship off the ground ....

... and it would absolutly KILL ME if she was CyberSexing with somebody else....

Especially if it got in the way of the relationship....

What do you think erz..... Am I insecure or jealous?

Or am I really in love? :love:

 

It will soon be as common as renting a dvd from a video store. I think it is not cheating. It is simply having more when your girl isn't up to it, either because she is not that sexual or work has made her slave to the desk.

I can see it now. Flurescent purple tubes lighting a tiny room with a computer with internet connection and a flash black leather spandex suit that fits over your entire body. A mask and probes into your head to make you think you are actually having it off with Diana Ross or anyone you fancy. hmmm, Gadget springs to mind or Olivia

 

Wow....Mister Casey....Thats hard to say.....its your heart...what does it tell you....
is it love ????