I'm a 54 gay man responded to an ad on Craigslist the ad said horny I suck you and you suck me. Made contact exchanging email for an hour . Then we text an hour and agreed to meet. Met the young guy he was nervous and so was I . He wasn't comfortable going to a hotel so I drove around for a while . It was his first time I talk to him to comfort . He wouldn't let me embrace I understand I touch his penis he touch mine then I suck him after was done brought him back. As I was driving off I text sleep well he text back not into guys sorry. Text him i understand take care he text you to . He seem cool with it sand possible meet again it chane when text sleep well was it as mistake sleep well? Need answers I was really liking this guy.
Sounds like he was bicurious, and just needed to validate his desires with physical contact. He found out he was straight in the end. Sorry to hear you got attached. That can hurt like a son of a bitch! I've vowed not to be with bicurious women again for that reason...
I believe that you have experienced the typical case of "buyer's remorse". A guy was interested in having m2m sex. He was scared, would not embrace, did not want to go to the hotel room, wanted to limit the scope of his experience from the very beginning. He got his cock sucked, shot his load, and hit his bedroom to sleep it off. When you look at his basic play, you realize that he was holding back mightily. In the end, it was just an average sexual experience, and once his hormone levels went down, he hastily decided that he was not into guys. Most likely until the hormones take over again, and he realizes that having a good mouth on his cock beats a lonely JO job by far. Respect his decision as it is, and do not text him anymore. He has your phone number, and he'll be texting you again, if he wants to repeat some of his experience. Should he do so, agree to play on your conditions, too. He now has no reasons to be afraid, and should agree to a more relaxed environment of a hotel room. He needs to experience a bit more than just a car BJ to really start enjoying it. Do not waste your time waiting for him or anyone else. Be out there for the other guys, and enjoy your life to the fullest. KD
