I must confess I've only done it when they asked me to. it never really came to me what to say, so the few times that I came on they're mouth, I did not asked for permission nor have I warned her (besides making it implicit that I was gonna) - its easier to say im sorry than to ask for permission, right? lol But seriously now... If she doesn't say anything... Ask or just go for it?
Unless she's explicitly said that you mustn't do it, then I would just go for it the next time she gives you a blowjob. If you tell her that you're about to cum, she will take your cock out of her mouth and finish you off by hand if she really doesn't want you to do it. For example, my wife never asks me to cum in her mouth but never complains when I do!
i'minyourundies fuckin nailed it......thanks for the laugh my friend but in all seriousness ......phoning your wife to ask permission is generally not a smart move....she doesn't need to know
Nice tips guys. Like I said: its easier to say im sorry than to ask for permission ;p I'd like to hear what ladies about this lol
An experienced lady will know when it's going to happen and just do what she's comfortable with. If you like to hold her head during recieving oral there might need to be some discussion about her wishes beforehand.
I didn't usually do it, you know, out of respect. But lately I'm just going for it. Normally I can control myself pretty good, so if I know the night's gonna be long, I don't come at all on the first couple hours. I like to keep it going and going. But then I stared to notice that some chicks actually looked disappointed, like they *really* wanna me to cum, as if they though "can I do this? am I not turning him on?" lol something like that. So now I'm just going for it. So far so good. But if a chick ever gets piss idk i think I'd be embarrassed and amused at the same time lol. I like to communicate, I tell what I like, I talk dirty, but chicks theses days... they all seem to be so shy idk why.
I pretty much know when it's about to happen, so I don't need to be asked. But, whenever a guy ask I do think it's sweet. From asking me for a kiss to asking me for anal, it's the thought that counts. I sound like I'm being sarcastic, but it's the topic, not my answer. I'm being quite serious. Anyways, depending on my mood... I will let it go into my mouth, watch it happen, let it shoot on another part of my body, may or may not swallow, etc. Basically, I'm up for anything, but nothing is something I favor towards or am totally against. Granted, someone on here mentioned holding the person's head. I never had a guy do that, so I don't know how I would feel or what I would think if that were to occur. On another note, I haven't done it a lot, so I doubt I'm even good at it. I know a lot of guys say most females don't know how to do it. I do have a tongue piercing though and I do like deep throating, so maybe, but I have a small mouth and a sensitive gag reflex, so I don't know. I'm willing to learn, though. Really, I think it's all about practice. So, the more practice you get the more you know. Also, talking honestly with your sexual partner. As for me, when it comes to practice I don't have a lot. But, I'm pretty honest when something is just not feeling right, or when it is. I have to be. I'm a small female and some guys are just too rough. They have to relax and slow their roll. And when they do I'm a lot happier.
ˆ Anwearing your first question, holding a girls head gives up power and control, almost like you were our objects, our belongins. and I think thats very HOT, for both of us. If you allow me say it, I think that holding a girls head kind of implicates on her *swallowing* exactly because that alpha/dominant behavior. So chikcs like that, other don't...
One question tho: do you girls LIKE the taste of cum and/or the feeling that you're swelling a man's cum?
Rather than permission, think advance warning-- you know, a "keep that up and you get a surprise" sort of line, but hopefully more clever. That gives the giver time to decide, or ask, or whatever.
There must never be an assumption - ever - when it comes to ejaculation. That stuff causes babies, STD's and stains on blue dresses. It also has an "acquired" taste. Any guy I've ever been with can't assume anything: it's simply manners, and 99.99% of the time I say "yes, do it!" - but he should ask whether it's mouth, vag, botty, face or midriff. Just ask. It's simple.
I like it when asked. It's cute. But most guys just go for it. I do not mind. It's often a thing of consent you feel. I like deep throating a guy as you guys love it. Often I need to be careful when the guy becomes wild, hold my head and really goes deep and fast. I do not like to gag too much. But I love when the guy is really in it. So I go an extra mile...
Asking before starting, or right at the beginning drains the romance/ spur of moment passion away, so I get why it isn't discussed beforehand. But, early in, some comment like, where do you want me to come? will allow her to decide, or at least offer options. Established lovers often develop non verbal communication or dirty talk that directs this.
When you go swimming would also be a good time, when she comes up for air You'd have to time it right though
You can usually tell when he's about to cum. It depends on my mood, sometimes i dont mind, sometimes i dont want. When i see he's about to cum i judge if i want to. By the way. Cum is aparently full of vitamins that are good for you. But then again, i heard some girl had a big cumfest and had to have the cum pumped out of her stomack. So i dont know... Anyways, it tastes bad, but the guy's like it.
When it comes to cum, I am respectful of the woman I am with. If she is into cum then by all means I prefer her to take it all. I never spring it up as a surprise. To me it needs to be agreed upon.