Cumming for an audiance

Yea - of course. As I've gotten older, I have far less self-judgement and judgement in general about anything like this. Stroking your cock, playing with your pussy - if you're NOT- that's when something is wrong with you. I remember experimenting with stimulations. Different levels, not at all about just orgasms. The theory was it would help you concentrate on your work if the stimulation was just very light, and it might help you retain more. So I did this to my girlfriend, sitting between her legs under the desk. And yea. Just really light..... Frustrating at first, but once she settled in, hours. And she did find improvement in her tests. I'm imagining a study hall with study-assistants. But of course - lube. Always lube.

 

Would love to hear more about it...cause i fund when I lightly rub or stroke myself or I get strong urges to stroke I find that my focus is solely on getting off to a full blown orgasm...but usually I try to edge for hours.

Must've been uncomfortable sitting g in the floor in that position for hours between ur gf legs and such.

 

I’ve masturbated on cam sites with more than one person watching me.
The thought of them getting of to me stroking my cock is a massive turn on.

The idea of doing it in person with others watching and them playing with themselves too while I cum is a fantasy and gets my cock twitching just thinking about it.

 

I did it on one cam site before and thought it hot jerking off for them as well as with them

 

I have never masturbated in front of others lol but I did I am sure I would cum pretty fast

 

What you use is a camping "chair." the seat is rounded on the bottom so you can rock forward and backward, with a back that supports you with a strap to the bottom. Very low profile and surprisingly comfortable. I do admit memory may have distorted the length of time and hours does sound more dedicated than is likely. But, yes, I do recall it lasting a study session. And hour?

You edge, so you already know to how to enjoy the moment, the feeling in that moment. So I'd take us back to when you start. I'm guessing you're starting with a "need," focus on getting the horny feeling out of the way. But then maybe you get into it - but with no interest in leaving an orgasm on the table. I learned to start with a focus on just feeling good.

It's like fine dining. You can treat eating with complete utilitarian focus, cramming your burger down your throat. Or you can draw out the experience over hours, savoring each bite, and even get up from the table still hungry. Ever eaten at a Michelin restaurant? No one is full after leaving that experience. I think sex is no different than any sensory experience. It is to be savored, explored, finessed into something rememberable. Of course, we don't always eat at 5 star restaurants. Sometimes, yea, we just need a few sliders to hit the spot. (I will admit to be enjoying this analogy.) But seriously. Is it really any different? So why do we harbor all these culturally induced weird hang ups about sexual experiences?

I'd try making a decision to play without any urge prompting you. Just decide, good time to play - and only very lightly stimulate your penis. Of course, it then throbs to a "raging" hard on and then that alone is hard to be all chill about. Almost demands attention. But enjoy it being hard. When it starts to calm down, very gently start back in with a subtle touch and easy stimulation. I first started with waiting for it to back soft again. But now, it'll stay hard while I just keep it from not going soft. Not too crazy and just enough to keep it from going soft. My objective starting out, is just to feel nice.

I'm married. My wife LOVES to play with me, especially while watching TV and she also experiments with me. Her favorite is driving me out of my mind until I just lose control. But this gentle teasing is just pleasant and intimate. Good luck.

 

Love your indight, I should definitely give it a try, but need to learn to disculipline myself of just feeling good a s not necessarily git straight to O