Cumming Clean Telling each other your deepest secrets.

My wife and I came clean with each other about our sexual past. Totally honest, no harm/no foul for anything. She asked me first, if I ever fucked another woman , just prior to fucking her. I admitted my guilt with reason. I had fucked my gf and ran into my wife (seperated then) We sat in my car and talked for a while and wound up kissing and getting crazy. She felt my hard cock in my pants , opened my zipper and pulled it out. At first she just stroked it as we kissed, then she sucked it. I don't know how she Couldn't know. It was less then an hour since I fucked my gf. I was happy when she said, "It's not a big deal ,past is past, Right?"
I didn't even get to ask her when she told me that I dealt with Sloppy Seconds. OK, I asked her when.
I remembered when she told me of the afternoon we met during our seperation. Similar to my story, she had been with a friend and was on her way home when we ran into each other on the subway. We didn't live far from each other and I asked her to come up for a quick drink, then I would walk her to her place. We were sitting on the sofa and getting the liquor had a slight affect on our judgement, but that didn't stop her, or I should say, didn't stop me. We were kissing and groping each other. My hand went in her panties and rubbed her clit, which was Very wet, slippery wet. Like a fool, I thought she was worked up from us, not her and her previous depositer, so I eagerly went down on her and licked and fingered her, before fucking her. She told me that she was afraid to tell me, so she didn't stop me.
I was stunned by her story and admitted it was one of our better and hotter encounters together..
That was sort of the opener for cumming clean with each other before we got back together.
Didn't mean to ramble.
No more secrets for us, since. Our secrets nulified each other.
What doesn't your partner know?

 

My wife knows all there is to know about me; it was something I carried over from my first marriage where my wife and I had to open up and put everything on the table so we could proceed with opening our marriage and as she had demanded it be. It was... painful at times to speak the things I thought I'd never speak or to hear the things from her that ran me through the gamut of emotions. Sometimes, we'd get deep into our conversation and get so turned on that we'd wind up making love - or fucking, depending on how the feeling hit us - and it was almost like the very first time we made love.

With my second marriage, I just came right out and told her everything about me and telling her that I would rather she hear about it all from me than to hear it from someone else who isn't going to get it right. It was easy to open up to her even though she had a hard time revealing her secrets (and I know she still has some she hasn't spoken about) but that's okay - I wanted to, I had to, so I did. I have nothing to hide from her...

 

Now that we are older, I doubt we will talk about anything again. I have a few secrets from her, though we had an open relationship I was with a few girls who were off limits.
Wife had an aunt she was very close to, and often went on trips together. I can't help but think, they found men on these weekend get aways.

 

It took some time but the wife and I got through the conversations about who, what , when, where of our sexual past. It wasn't an open discussion for the first few attempts but eventually we shared more with each other. When we started getting into WHO we did things with it was difficult to get very far in a conversation because it gets erotic and we just ended up fucking to the memory of a very real person. WHO is the reality factor aphrodisiac when you can picture a person you know from her past. It's really good sex therapy for a couple. And it's liberating. When you get to the point where you can hear her talk about blowing some guy on the beach and you can say, yeah, I did that too, it's a great comfort. Having her to share the things that make my dick quiver keeps our sex life fun, not just going through the motions.
We don't share EVERYTHING but that's a judgement call. I know she doesn't have any excitement for me doing crossdressing stuff. I don't think she wants to see me as a sissy. Even in our MMFs when I might end up with a guys dick in my mouth for a minute or when I lick his cum from her body or when she kisses me with his cum I'm still very masculine, just passionate. When I'm in stockings with my feet up in the air while a guy kisses me and fucks me, well I don't think she gets off on that so it's all mine. I'm not afraid to share but she shows no interest when I start to talk about me in skirts and the like.

 

I am a middle aged male, long time married and have been influenced by porn and curious about letting other men, perhaps my friends, enjoy what I have had in bed for so many years. Wife is younger and very attractive and I have developed fantasies about allowing risky behavior for both of our pleasure. Wife would require some convincing as she had adhered to our vows. If anyone would kindly strike up a conversation with me on private email, I would appreciate it. jpeepers340@protonmail.com.

 

I have a lot of secrets. My wife isn't curious about my past. We've never talked about our sexual history.

She doesn't know that I had been with men when I was single. She never asked. She doesn't know how much I'm addicted to cock.

She isn't very open-minded and vanilla sex is all she is into. We've never talked about fantasies or kinks. I don't really think that she has any kinks and I would feel judged if I shared my kinks with her.

 

Nope. Some things are better left unsaid. My spouse knows I had other sex partners before marriage. We told of our escapades before tying the knot. Not in detail but still let the knowledge be shared between us. I was able to pry out infidelities after we married by letting her open up in her time. I stayed true because she was always willing and able even in the late months of pregnancy. I had no need to seek pussy elsewhere until. Until her body failed her and she had to become celibate due to her health. We talked and I began to enjoy other women. She knows I now have fun outside our marriage but has shown it bothers her. So I keep my trysts to myself and have secrets these days. What she doesn't know doesn't hurt her. Will I be found out someday? Possibly but asking for forgiveness instead of permission is the better way at this point in our lives.

 

My wife's past involved a lot of booze along with the various romps. I'm very interested in hearing about it, but she claims she doesn't remember much - thanks to the booze. I'm skeptical.

I'm an open book when it comes to my past, but she doesn't want to know about it.