I know this is an old post but was searching on edging to look for new ways... I am the same way as you state regarding loving the feeling I get when super hard and oozing precum. Although I find if I totally back off. (even take a break and get dressed-better yet some some weed). I WILL have a huge load. The trick is not to come without backing off...even letting yourself get soft. Then ramping up to completion.
Edging is the best. Totally 100% pleasure just for me time. I've been doing it pretty much the same way since I was 14.... I'm never in a hurry - sometimes I even stop and pick it up later to finish off.
Twogigahz, and anyone else that cares to answer. 1- Do you find that when you 'stop and finish later' that you get blueballs? i get such paid i take ibibiprophin and tylonal. I also take cold showers. Does anyone else have this problem or do they wallow in the pain..lol 2 Sometimes i do this over and over many days in succession. When i do blow it the orgasam is awesome. Does anyone find it makes it more messy/ ie bigger more pleasurable loads. 3-Has anyone figured out a good way to work this into partnered sex. For me if I am on an edging cycle, my wife lets me edge then come in her mouth or on her face. I find it impractical to edge and finish with piv sex.
1- Do you find that when you 'stop and finish later' that you get blueballs? i get such paid i take ibibiprophin and tylonal. I also take cold showers. Does anyone else have this problem or do they wallow in the pain..lol >>no, never really had any blue balls. Maybe it's your PC muscle that gets strained from squeezing it tight for so long. I have experienced that a few times, pretty annoying. You need to relax it periodically. 2 Sometimes i do this over and over many days in succession. When i do blow it the orgasm is awesome. Does anyone find it makes it more messy/ ie bigger more pleasurable loads. >>it's absolutely better after edging than doing it 'one and done'. Sometimes I'll go a few days without a finish, especially when I plan on getting some action later - like for the weekend and I'll save the big one for that. It's never easy, but it's a lot of fun to have a bunch of 'almost' orgasms - plus, you don't go into refractory, always ready to do again after a break. 3-Has anyone figured out a good way to work this into partnered sex. For me if I am on an edging cycle, my wife lets me edge then come in her mouth or on her face. I find it impractical to edge and finish with piv sex.[/QUOTE] >>never been able to pull it off with PIV sex. It's just too difficult trying to manage getting her over the top and keep me on the edge with constant stimulation and having to stop periodically to not cum. Sometimes I'll take my time after she's cum and slowly try to hold it on the edge a while or pull out a bit, but it's usually just too good by then. Edging with a BJ is easier as she can stop or slow down a few times as I get close - it's like hold it riiiiiiggght there....stop...... but I can get a little greedy with that....then she'll decide I have had enough (or she has...) and finish me off... but no complaints here, ever !
I love edging. I masterbate for hours fantasizing, reading erotic short stories or audio. I watched porn last night and fantasized about girlfriends daughter. In the end, I just laid back and enjoyed sensual thoughts of her cum building until I had both hands tight around my cock imagining I'm deep in my naughty girls hot pussy. I pull both hands down my shaft and hold, like I'm so deep and my cum shoots into the air from my pulsing cock. For my naughty girl I start imagining I'm pounding into her again. I only get a couple strokes on my cock and I shoot again, not as strong but mind blowing just the same. My God fantasizing about her is unbelievable
I've never gotten this. Make sure you're giving your balls enough air flow and they're not overheating. For me the main problem ends up being too horny. If I edge for a long time, usually the final orgasm isn't that pleasurable, and the size depends on my last 'emission'. I usually do 'the dribbler' method (someone explained it in this thread), and it usually shoots out for me. If I hadn't done that method in the last few minutes, usually it's normal sized. It works better if you're giving each other oral. Then you can just alternate who is receiving when they get too 'trigger happy'. I find that 69 doesn't really work that well in reality.
Sorry to hear that. Actually, while masturbating and edging I get the exact opposite effect. I edge for at least 2 or 3 hours every time that I masturbate because it gives me amazing orgasms. I shake, get very loud and vocal and cum hard. Also, when I masturbate without edging my cum squirts out without much "pressure", but when I edge it shoots out like it's under great pressure. Pretty much the difference between a 1/2 to 1 inch squirt compared to a 6 inch squirt. My longest edging session was almost 12 hours (didn't have a lot to do that day) and when I reached orgasm it felt like I was cumming forever!!!
Edging gave me different ejaculations After being taken close several times by hand and I let go, it seemed like the muscles were not able to contract as good. It resulted in the semen just coming out. But it felt GOOD! Sometimes it was normal. I had those forceful ones too. it made one squeal in surprise while she kept stroking through the ejaculation after nearly an hour of bringing me to orgasms. One had a jolting reaction seeing the cumshot squirt high in the air. A married woman who loved the edging, blowjob and the taste said a few times it shot hard and there was a lot. After the bj was done
My ex wife loved sucking my cock and swallowing my cum. Normally, she never had a problem swallowing my entire load of cum or how hard it shot into her mouth. One time, after she had been edging me for a couple hours, she told me that she wanted me to finish in her mouth. She got me really close to orgasm and then slipped my cock into her mouth. She was totally unprepared for the amount of cum and the force of my cum squirting into her mouth. She actually gagged and my cum started squirting out of the sides of her mouth and running down my cock. After she swallowed all my cum, cleaned my cock with her mouth and licked up all the cum that had dribbled onto my balls, she told me I almost choked her and that she never knew I could cum that much!!!
For some reason, over the years I have been lucky enough to hook up with woman that are very adamantly into sucking cock. Which works out well, because I am very much into returning the the favor of orally servicing them!!!
I edged on and off and made myself last for days before unloading. Mostly it was an ooze of pre come and come. Not a lot of volume. No stimulus for days, no chance to edge. Then I got privacy and went hard at it for a while. Totally different climax. I shot a long jet of sperm. Haven't done that for quite a while.