Cumming after Edging

Discussion in 'Masturbation' started by hornyjohn, Sep 25, 2013.

  1. hornyjohn

    hornyjohn Member

    I love masturbating. Could be my favorite thing to do - period. I like to make it last and if I have time and privacy I enjoy spending hours doing it. I inevitably get that "I wanna cum right now" feeling, but then I will slow down or stop just before orgasm. Edging. It's great fun. The only downside is that if I edge too much, when I finally get around to letting go and cumming, I dont cum very hard. It feels great, but there is no explosion of joy juice - just a trickle and flow of cum.

    Anyone else experience this?
     
  2. Metalhead79

    Metalhead79 Visitor

    Yep...have had many moments where this happens and it sucks lol...but its one of those things where if you hold off just long enough and go at the perfect time then its just incredibly awesome, so i guess thats the tradeoff lol
     
  3. hornyjohn

    hornyjohn Member

    Its either quality or quantity with me. Ideally, if im masturbating for say an hour or so, and ive edged a couple of times then I usually have a great finish. Lots of thick ropes of cum shooting out. Feels amazing. But if im doing this for more than 2 or 3 hours (which I LOVE to do) and ive edged a lot, then the ending is usually a little stream of cum that drips out. I just need to let myself cum at that hour and a half mark and be done with it. Trouble is that it feels TOO good to wanna stop. I love those marathon sessions.
     
  4. hardnusa38

    hardnusa38 Guest

    I love edgeing.. mostly an hour or two, but when i can i enjoy a long jack time . Just went 8hours two days ago.. when i let loose the feeling is gr8and a shoot 3 to 4 feet!
     
  5. PineMan

    PineMan Senior Member

    If you like edging, you really should try taking it to the next level of will power & self control & try the technique I developed (at least I've never come across anyone describing it anywhere else) & call "The Dribbler"

    As you may, or may not be aware, Orgasm & Ejaculation are not quite the same thing. Ejaculation is like putting the bullet in the chamber & the Orgasm is when the hammer hits hits it to give it the impetus to fire.

    As you know, with edging, you simply masturbate until you feel you are approaching Orgasm & then stop until the sensation passes before continuing. The Dribbler, on the other hand takes it that little bit further so that you must learn to recognise the sensation of the semen starting to rise in readiness for ejaculation.

    This is the point at which self control really comes into its own, as you must relax everything, thus denying the Orgasm to kick in.

    I agree it isn't as straightforward as edging, because you have to learn to recognise your own body's subtle internal sensations, but if you get it right, the Ejaculation will be set into motion, but without the force of the Orgasm behind it, the semen will simply dribble out (hence the name).

    Because of not yet having reached Orgasm, your erection should remain, and this is the stage at which you hold back for a moment, as you would with Edging. Then, once you feel you are back in control of things, you can repeat the procedure, using your own semen as a natural lube which, in the process can get whipped up into a froth, much like an egg white, when making a meringue, which isn't surprising, seeing as the protein strings of semen are much the same as that of egg white, plus it changes the taste of it in a similar manner.

    With sufficient self control you can achieve a number of consecutive ejaculations (each becoming more & more watery) until you reach that final one where you lose control & have to follow through, at which point this feels as if all those Orgasms that were previously denied have been stockpiled, only to be released in one massive explosion of mind blowing ecstacy.

    The final ejaculation, despite consisting of little more than salty water by this time is also likely to shoot out like a fountain, with far more power than you would normally expect.

    My personal record remains at 10 ejaculations, including the final one & I must admit that my penis was feeling rather bruised by the time I finished.

    If you want to challenge yourself to a new experience, once you've succeeded in reaching a few Dribblers I think you'll agree, it's well worth the effort plus, with practice you'll learn to manage to stock up even more Orgasms.
     
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  6. justwonderin

    justwonderin Member

    prostate stimulation with control can produce loads of semen without climax if your into that...
     
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  7. edgewalkernow

    edgewalkernow Member

    I love prostate stimulation but find it best done by a partner.
     
  8. crzhors

    crzhors Member

    As we speak, 6" Cock dildo,Rocking on it,The P spot
     
  9. HipHipHorray

    HipHipHorray Banned

    I've heard snippits of info about this. What's the deal? I don't have a gf right now, so, do the 50-100$ prostate massagers really work?
     
  10. justwonderin

    justwonderin Member

    I don't know, you can use all kinds of other things, a 1" dia. round ended dowel, the handle of a given tool....once you find the G spot, just about anything will work. My finger just isn't quite long enough
     
  11. nz male

    nz male Senior Member

    My fingers are too short as well & I just have to find items that are safe to use for prostate stimulation & can hit the right spot.
     
  12. KingWilly

    KingWilly Member

    Fascinating topic and I'm very curious about a few things, especially what PineMan wrote about with this whole "dribbling" concept as I wonder if that's what I've somewhat been doing and just thinking it was edging...

    I don't do it very often as I typically would just rather cum multiple times back to back separated by a couple minutes and do that till exhaustion, but every now and then I do get the urge to edge or drip or whatever the hell you call it, but this is how I would describe it and it's actually hard for me to do, or to sustain I should say...

    So side note first - if you want to shoot a big load, it really helps to either be in a situation where you are doing lots of romance or foreplay for hours to which you can feel pre-cum seeping out, etc... as this really gets your body producing more seminal fluid. Or you can simulate this by masturbating, bringing yourself near the edge but being careful not to come to close, then backing off and doing a few sessions of that, but as others have mentioned if you come too close to the point where you are struggling to hold back its like you end up clogging things up and sometimes (least with me) your nuts ache if done too much and then when you do cum you just dribble out a little bit, and left asking yourself "Where the hell did the rest of it go???"


    Anyway, what I have enjoyed every so often, which doesn't sound like what you guys have described as edging. For one I have to be very relaxed and the mental game or concentration here is key as well. I cannot do this to porn per say as porn fluctuates far as what drives you nuts and what bores you. For me I've done this in dead silence with the lights out lying on a bed. Its basically masturbating at a very slow pace from the start, so you build things slowly, taking slow controlled strokes and a long time to build things up, because if you build up fast you typically have to back off fast (I think that's edging right?), least I've found that. Anyway you build and build slowly till you slowly start to feel yourself crossing into that point of no return. And this can take many minutes... As you begin to cross this threshold you slowly adjust your speed / rhythm down just enough such that the feeling still continues to build, and you keep adjusting as things build till you are doing slow small controlled strokes and are literally teetering on the edge of cumming. Adjust too much and go to slow you kind of lose the wave. Adjust too little and you can end up cumming. Key is to really get that balance right so that you never stop. Now for me what will happen is I'll have that "cum building" blissful feeling and it stays there it doesn't go away or subside. My cock will start to slowly throb and jerk every second or two and if I'm able to keep the exact rhythm it literally feels euphoric like you are cumming continuously, although with me I don't have any ejaculation per say, not even dribbles from what I remember.

    Now typically what will happen with me is I can keep that edge up for a few minutes sometimes but certainly not hours at that peek. It's like a wave and sooner or later the wave breaks and you blast off or you ease off the back, but in that state it's very easy to get back on the peek. For me I've never been able to keep this up for hours, maybe at most 30-45 minutes, but after a while I just want to blast off to Mars or my hand gets tired



    So please someone with a lot more experience and knowledge shed some light on what I've mentioned I'd really appreciate it!
     
  13. PineMan

    PineMan Senior Member

    Edging simply involves stopping when you feel you are about to cum. The Dribbler involves more will power, as you need to take it that little step further until you feel the fluids rising, and then you stop, relaxing all your orgasmic muscles. Without the orgasm the semen has nothing to force it out, so it just dribbles out under its own impetus. It's difficult to describe a sensation (like describing a colour to someone who's been blind from birth), but once experienced you'll know exactly what I mean. After all, even something as basic as an orgasm is nigh on impossible to describe to someone who's never had one, but once initiated to the art it suddenly becomes obvious.
     
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  14. KingWilly

    KingWilly Member

    Damn... I read your reply a few times trying to get the full meaning and I get what you're saying. Don't know that I've experienced what you are stating, but then again the act of Edging to me still sounds different than what I've experienced and read online. So lets please keep this going as I'm intrigued. Giving my thoughts further...

    I think of orgasms overall as an ocean wave building and breaking. Meaning you surf and surf and as you find a wave building you enter the beginning of an orgasm as it starts to suck you in. Now this building point or as I like to call it "the point of no return" feels great & euphoric and starts feeling more intense as it reaches its climax. When you reach climax and as you start ejaculating (squirting cum) the building feeling subsides immediately and is replaced or overtaken by the ejaculation feeling (but both blend together for a split second) and it's the best of both worlds at that moment. However as you climax the "cumming" feels best at the start and starts to subside till it's completion which usually lasts no longer than 4-8 seconds. Okay, did everyone get that & was it good for you too? Whew... So to sum up, the building of a orgasm feels good and feels better as it goes on, they meet in the middle and the ejaculating of the orgasm feels equally as good but best at the start and then subsides till it completes, so it's no wonder one leads into the other, duh... Now the important thing here is you can control this building phase, where as far as I know you cannot control the release phase and that is important. Meaning once you've started blasting off there's no stopping. I mean I guess there is but far as I know your body acts like it came already in which case you'll start to lose your erection, ect...

    Now what I've found is as you are entering this "building" phase, but slow down steadily just enough such that as you still rise in intensity you can reach this climax point where you are on the peek of blasting off, while still stroking slowly (like once every or every other seconds at this point) and those building feelings keep going and don't go away. So you're not stopping, you're doing it just enough of a controlled pace to keep you on the verge of cumming but don't break that barrier (I think this is different than edging from what I've read). In this state I've found my dick will pulsate like it's trying to cum, but nothing comes out. if I'm controlled enough I can ride this peek for a few minutes or more. However if I stroke one times too many I'll start to cum (and you might as well fap like mad at that point and make the most of it) or what usually happens is you start to fall off the back of the wave and the feeling begins to subside, in which you just pump a little faster and you reach it again. Bottom line if you can hold this peek point it feels wonderful, but it comes at a price of wanting to stroke like mad and shot a hole through the ceiling too. Still it makes for some good clean fun.

    I've seen a video of a woman doing this to a guy and she knows what she's doing and it lasts some 10 minutes till she finally strokes one time too many, will try to find & post it...
     
  15. hornyjohn

    hornyjohn Member

    Very nice explanation. I totally agree with what you said about building up and getting to that point of no return. It's about finding that sweet spot of feeling on the brink of cumming and maintaining. Careless or quick strokes can put you over the edge. I have cum without even getting fully hard a few times if im in a rush and I start to jerk off quickly while watching something arousing. I dont really like it this way.

    For me I think I prefer longevity to quality. I LOVE a good cum - an explosive orgasm that produces big thick white wads of sperm. But I also love lasting a long time and enjoying the feeling of having a hard dick. So I usually rub for a few mintues until im extremely aroused, hard as can be, dick throbbing, leaking precum like a faucet, and just holding and flexing it to feel that hardness. My body tingles. This level of edging only happens a few times. I know too that if I have felt THIS good 3 or 4 times, that my body will not produce a big cumshot afterwards. I think this is because I have already had a (half) orgasm. Where I see my precum dribble change from clear to white. It doesnt shoot out because I havent let myself fully let go.

    I just love enjoying porn, chatting and webcamming so much that I dont want to have a quick orgasm. I like taking my time, when time (and privacy) permits.
     
  16. I can edge for 3-4 hours! It is awesome once you cum, but the real reward is how long you can last when you are with a woman. I have taught myself to be in 110% control of when I cum! I can cum in 2 minutes or 4 hours. Honestly, anything after 4 hours I run the risk of blue balls and that it horrible-thus my screen name!
     
  17. KingWilly

    KingWilly Member

    I cannot really edge with a woman (only tried with my wife). invariably just me staring at her will make me blast off if I'm on the edge. Or me trying to edge in her will put her to sleep as it's too slow for her. That said I can last a good little while (20min+ if I avoid cum traps). Problem is she likes it fast, and well that's a cum trap...

    It's times like that you start naming in your head the batting order of a baseball team or something similar :D
     
  18. slittylicker

    slittylicker Member

    I do this too, except I lick it all off my hand and It actually tastes good. It's not strong tasting like when you orgasm. It's usually clear,thin, and has a mild taste...almost tasteless. If I had actually ejaculated, I wouldn't have any interest in tasting it. I still have an erection and still am in the process of working toward orgasm, but a considerable amount of something comes out when I stop short, just before coming. I wondered if anyone else has done this.
     
  19. slittylicker

    slittylicker Member

    I've done that and wondered if anyone else has. It's the only time I have any interest in tasting it. I'm usually really turned on and it tastes good. If I had ejaculated, the thought of tasting it would turn me off. I've had 1/2 to a whole teaspoon dribble out. It's clear and thinner than ejaculate.
     
  20. John1234567

    John1234567 Members

    You must bring joy to so many
     

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