Cuming on giant cock?

I have a normal sized cock which my wife loves. Why does my wife cum so fast on our 10 inch black cock? She rarely cums from just my cock and usually needs the we-vibe for added stimulation. She says she loves the size of my penis.
But once and a while (every month) she asks for the big black dildo. It's 10 inches long and fatter than a pop can. She straddles it and easily slides it in. She fucks it hard and always cums within a minute! Where as she would never cum from just my cock. It's super hot to watch, but I wonder why/how she cums even though she always says size doesn't matter. I wonder if she would cum so quick if I had a giant cock? Or is it part of her role playing fantasy that gets her so excited.

 

Luckily my wife does not and never had a dildo, sometimes my foreplay gets her wet before I have fucked her

 

The body's biggest sexual organ is the brain. It is a mental thing for her. Just enjoy the fact that she is enjoying it.

 

Fatter than a pop can? Are you serious? That's some pretty big girth!

Years ago, I used to tease my wife when passing large salamis in the market that she'd like them. No way, she said. Too big. They would hurt. Then, while giving her oral one time, she expecting me to slide the average sized dildo in her like usual, I instead had a very large cucumber hidden and slid that in. She moaned, bucked and got off harder and faster than ever before. It was humbling and exciting at the same time. So, I did her again like that, and again, and again. I asked what it was about these cukes getting her off like they did and she explained that it was the sensation of being stretched to the brink of discomfort and feeling full at the same time. I noticed she began clicking on large insertion porn videos and then fisting. We tried fisting and it was another success, she being surprised how good it felt. It eventually got to the point she was having difficulty getting off on me alone, even though I have a larger than average girth, requiring a Magnum XL condom when I used to wear condoms. It got to the point she was reaching for the average sized dildo to slide in beside me. And it would go in easily. Unbeknownst to either of us, she was being conditioned to size. We eventually stopped as it became a problem for both. She was feeling bad, like she was some sort of freak as she described, and I was having feelings of inadequacy. Be careful.

To answer your question, its not uncommon for women to like to be stretched to the brink of discomfort, to feel the fullness, at certain times of the month or when feeling extra aroused. Some claim to only want it on occasion, and they may be fine with it once a month or so. Others, like my wife, may like it so much that they crave it more and more until it becomes the only thing that gets them off. My wife always said my penis was perfectly sized. It's probably safe to say that she just doesn't want me to feel self-conscious by saying "I wish your cock was bigger", just as I wouldn't say, "I wish your vagina was tighter".

The other part of your wife liking the big black dong is role playing like you say. Does she watch porn? If so, do you know what she watches? There's been a longstanding myth about all black guys having unusually large peckers, and porn has perpetuated this to no end through carefully selected men and women (shorter black guys with larger than average dongs fucking tiny white girls), carefully selected words, lighting, scripts, etc. The human mind is so gullible and vulnerable, especially when all sorts of chemicals are being released due to watching others fuck. We get these ideas planted in our brains and it's really an extremely powerful and some times dangerous thing. Porn. It's like fire. Nice to watch in a fireplace, and it can warm you. It can also burn your house down with you in it.

 

Wow. Great feedback. It true, she gets very excited because I get excited. But I neglected to say it's not all fantasy. She's only ever had a few sex partners but many years ago when she was 18 she was with a black guy for a few weeks when she was traveling. She says he was only a little bigger than me, but I think she's not be truthful to save my ego abit. Which doesn't bother me as we've been married 25 years now. I'm guessing she may be fantasizing about this guy?
And I fist her once and a while, so size of this dildo is smaller than my hand.
It's all interesting as these great women have so many angles. An she's got what I call her magic pussy.

 

For most, there are things we will never know about our significant others. But here, I seriously doubt this has much if anything to do with that guy she was with more than 25 years ago. I'd bet it has more to do with the size of the dildo than anything. The fact that it is black could very well signal in her brain something that facilitates and enhances the experience to some degree though. Lets face it. There's been so much talk about BBC, and so many porno videos depicting the visual along with scripted lines referencing BBC, that it is drilled into our minds that BBC is something good, desirable. Even though the size of BBC has been hugely exaggerated and misrepresented, it is one of the most dominating themes in porn, particularly interracial sex between a black man and white woman. There's some carryover from the early days of that terribly ugly era of slavery too that no doubt plays some sort of role, making it taboo on some level. And it's human nature to want what we can't have, or in this case, what our subconsciousness tells us we can't have or is taboo. It is tantalizing, and that's arousing in itself.

The human mind is an interesting thing. It doesn't take much to convince it of something, even if there's no logic or science to back it up. Marketers know and take advantage of this with every advertisement they come up with.

Love and kindness to all, regardless of skin color or looks. We all share vulnerabilities inherent to living.

 

Yes for sure the thickness of the dildo, and the dirty talk and fantasy we have.
She never uses it alone, and pulls it out to impress. Every guy loves a "slutty" wife.

 

It's definitely the size. I never cum harder or faster than when I have a thick cock inside me. It's the stretching and full feeling I get that just puts me over the edge!

 

My latest girlfriend tells me it feels so tight and she gets really wet, and her being stretched is great to see for me

 

That answers my earlier question.

 

Could be the size (physically) or the mental side

I’m quite tight and when I was in my late teens I fooled around with an older man for a few months (who taught me a lot!). Anyway he loved penetrating me with dildos, cucumbers, anything really. When I took something big he’d tell me how proud he was and how much it turned him on and how wet it made me and to this day seeing something big penetrating me is a massive mental turn on

 

Good for being with an older man. We need lovin too.

 

It’s funny, he used to tell how hot he got being with a teenager agin but at the time I thought I was definitely the lucky one being with a real man who knew what he was doing and wanted me to learn about great sex. Now I see it was a true win win. I highly recommend it

 

You are right, a real man has enough experience to show a young woman the things that will let her enjoy and appreciate a good lover. Also show her what to expect from one too.

 

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It wasn't exactly giant, a little bigger than mine... but my wife was holding our cocks together in her hands,

she poured lube over our cocks and we were 'fucking' her hands... well I came first

The three of us watched as I pumped my load all over his cock...

my wife told us the 'penalty' of cumming first was to clean the mess... orally.

 

So did you clean your cum off his coc in front of your lady?

 

because size does matter..... average and smaller i can fuck all night and cum maybe once or twice , FWB for example 7 long 7 around, yes i measured it, he can make me cum over and over again

 

My wife says that the size of the cock has no impact on her orgasm. She enjoyed the feeling of being filled with a bigger cock, but her best orgasms have been with an average size cock. She cums best after good, sexy foreplay that gets her super wet, followed by sex with lots of contact with her clit. The guy with the biggest cock was so focused on his own enjoyment that she never had an orgasm.

 

Mmmmmmmm. Very hot