Cuddling

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  1. Ashalicious

    Ashalicious Senior Member

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    How much do you enjoy cuddling? Is it important to you in a relationship, or could you take it or leave it?

    I once dated a guy who would freak out if I touched him first thing in the morning. He just didn't want to be touched until he had fully woken up. Obviously that relationship didn't last long.
     
  2. I'minmyunderwear

    I'minmyunderwear Newbie

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    how much? i don't know, how do you quantify it? like a 9 maybe?

    your ex was probably gay.
     
  3. AstralBear

    AstralBear Feed the Bear

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    I love to cuddle. Makes me feel warm and happy on the inside.
     
  4. AceK

    AceK Scientia Potentia Est

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    i like it.
     
  5. Ashalicious

    Ashalicious Senior Member

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    I guess I should say "How often do you like to cuddle".....

    My ex was just a fucking jerk...He wasn't a nice guy, very negative, had lots of emotional problems.
     
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    OMGZ so my girl she be like wants to cuddle and then she falls asleep every every time.. damnit, so I wake her up rubbing on her titties and clit and then we bang and then she be like oh baby will you cuddle with me and falls asleep again.............. OMGZ .. so my girl she be like wants to cuddle and then she falls asleep every every time.. damnit, so I wake her up rubbing on her titties and clit and then we bang and then she be like oh baby will you cuddle with me and falls asleep again....OMGZ so my girl she be like wants to cuddle and then she falls asleep every every time.. damnit, so I wake her up rubbing on her titties and clit and then we bang and then she be like oh baby will you cuddle with me and falls asleep again.....

    yeap..
     
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  7. snowtiggernd

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    I like cuddling.
     
  8. Irminsul

    Irminsul Valkyrie

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    So do I. :)
     
  9. Meliai

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    I can take it or leave it. Sometimes I feel like I'm missing some important part of
    what makes girls girls. Like after sex, ill cuddle for a few minutes so my partner doesn't think I'm a freak but then I wanna jump out of bed and make a sandwich or something. And I cannot cuddle when I sleep, I'm too hot natured and also really neurotic and I can't have someone breathing down my neck all night. I do like a good morning cuddle when I'm semi conscious.
     
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  10. Ashalicious

    Ashalicious Senior Member

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    One of my favorite things to do is to push my ass back into my husbands crotch while we spoon. Other than sex itself, I don't think there is anything else that makes me feel as physically close to my man as that does.
     
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    Fairlight Banned

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    I was spooning with my woman last night.Cuddles are one of the things that make life worth living.Too clingy though is too clingy,so I know when to disentangle.
     
  12. Ashalicious

    Ashalicious Senior Member

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    Clingy is different. Clingy is when you can't leave the persons side in social situations. Clingy is never a good thing.
     
  13. Ididthisforschool24

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    Cuddling is one of the more important things in a relationship. It allows a couple to feel eat other and get intimate. Personally my Girlfriend love to snuggle and so do I, but after about 30 minutes snuggle under a heavy blanket I get to hot while she can never be to hot. It something that I ran into a lot so I went out and bought a couple different blankets... and then realized I should just take half of the blanket off of me. Theirs cuddling before bed and after bed, enjoy it!
     
  14. shygurl170

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    I don't cuddle that often, not in a relationship.
    However, I have had recent experiences of cuddling. It was very enjoyable. I am a touchy person. I like to be touched and to touch my partner. I am fairly simple...holding hands can be a turn on for me.

    It is best when you cuddle and you fit....perfectly. *sigh*
     
  15. Ashalicious

    Ashalicious Senior Member

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    Fits like a puzzle!!!
     
  16. newbie-one

    newbie-one one with the newbiverse

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    Well, it could be that your ex had some kind of abuse history that he didn't tell you about.
     
  17. I'minmyunderwear

    I'minmyunderwear Newbie

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    more often than i get to.
     
  18. Nerdanderthal

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    Some people need a cup of coffee to set them straight.
     
  19. abarambling

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    Well, that got posted twice for some reason. Sorry.
     
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    The sweat of cuddling can bring out the ick factor in some people. For me it's nothing a quick shower can't fix. Also, the sweat goes as fast as it comes.

    The thing that really concerns me is having a girl basically on top of a guy for hours. Things will go numb and whatnot. I'll feel bad if that were to happen to the guy I'm cuddling with.

    Of course, I like cuddling because I'm often cold and I like to steal the body heat of the guy that I'm cuddling with. Also, If I'm sick (which often times I am these days) it's nice to be rubbed, caress, etc, which normally goes hand and hand with cuddling.

    Body ratio between the guy and myself is important to me, because I am so petite and short. But, I'm not too picky on the subject matter. As long as the big guy is aware that I'm not like his normal 120 pound 5'7" girl he usually gets with, then I'm sure we can make it work somehow.

    There is something about cuddling that makes me weak, so it's hard to get up off of the bed. This can be kind of annoying, especially when I have to get up and do things.

    Best time to cuddle? During a movie.

    Worse time to cuddle? While walking, especially if the guy is ten times my size.

    I'm neutral on cuddling while sleeping. Basically, if it happens it happens. If it doesn't that's fine too.

    Sometimes cuddling leads to sex. That's fine. More often it does not, that's fine too.

    I'm known to hit a guy by accident when repositioning myself or the guy falls off the bed. To be fair, a guy has pressed so hard against me that it makes me scream. Or they hit me because they forget I'm there while they're asleep.

    Ha, the whole crotch to butt thing... yea... I can't do that if the guy sitting down on the bed meets my face while I stand up. It's more like my butt to his stomach.

    I've only had one experience with cuddling. The rest where 'grab and go' kind of guys. Haven't had the best of luck with the fellas, you dig? Cuddling and all that relationship stuff isn't in their radar. Just sex.

    Oh, and I associate cuddling with relationships. So, don't cuddle with me. I might think we're married and you gonna have ma babies. :dizzy2: I kid. I kid. But, I haven't found one person that doesn't take hand holding, cuddling, etc more personal than say sex. I know, crazy. You would think sex would be more personal because you're showing all your naked bits and whatnot.
     

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