cuckolding....

That's exactly what I told a friend of mine who called me while all worked up because his wife was on a date. My friend knew the man his wife was dating and he knew she was getting fucked that evening. He also had encouraged her to go on the date. I reiterated all of this to him and assured him she would come home, probably filled with cum, and would still be his wife and love him. But it was he himself that had encouraged her to go out with the other man. He put himself in this position and needed to accept she may have a good time. In the end there was nothing he could do about it other than support her having sex with others. It's her life and she chooses how to live it. It was a hard pill to swallow for him but he got through it.

 

Did he have sex with her when she got home? I remember one of the early times my gf was unsure of my reaction when she got home and I said if it didn't work we could just have a shower and a cuddle and it would all be ok. In fact as soon as she came in the door and knew she'd been fucked and his cum was still inside her I was hooked and wanted her more than ever. Sliding into her and feeling her wet and open from him, deep inside was a thrill I'll never forget.

 

That I don't know for sure but I expect so. I do know she's dating other people.

 

The so called "reclaim sex" is many. In fact that seems to be why many men allow, instigate it. They want to have sex with their wives after another man has been there.

 

I've always, since a teenage enjoyed the world of cuckolding. I started out at a young age always trying or looking for MMF, only because of my hidden desires. Although, I'm not into humiliation myself, I do see a place for it. I had two wives and they enjoyed it as much as I. Just wish now in an old age, I could see some good amateur (real,real) cuckolding. The porn sites, just can't capture the real thing. I know there have to be older, mature couples out in the world with the desire to show off. Guess I need to go to the dark web site. Lol.

 

Over the years, and I have plenty, I've notices some men who desperately want the livestyle of a cuckold or a form there of. Later to find, they can't handle it, especially when they have had an orgasm and now back in their real world. Years ago I was in a swingers group. I would tell new couples, start slow, maybe a feel here or there, then progress. Once you have had penetration you can't go back. I do think it saved some marriages. Sex, cuckolding, etc always seems to exciting until you reach your goal, then it can be back to earth with reality. Some can't truly handle it. For me, it's been a lifelong way of life.

 

Try the website "yuvutu" which is a porn site done by amateurs. Look for the category "Cuckold".

 

Thanks, I'll call it up. I appreciate the lead.

 

We didn't call it cuckolding. Just sexual experiences. I will admit I might have felt a bit strange her first time with another man. We meet mostly with other couples, only a few mfm threesomes. Now I remember one of them better than many other experiences.

 

I'm with you, I didn't hear cuckold until way later in life.

 

You didn't call it cuckolding because what you were doing might not have been that. I suggest your activity fell into either stag/vixen or hot wife fun. Even wife swap or swinging by meeting other couples. Real cuckolding involves husband humiliation and it doesn't sound like your activities involved that.

 

That's I didn't know the difference, Once again, I am a man without a label. haha ahaha

 

In our encounters I saw 2 men get upset, both thought they were God's gift to women. and could not handle seeing their girlfriends enjoying sex with another man.

 

I never considered myself the worlds greatest lover, and I knew when we talked about an open relationship. I knew she would experience bigger dicks, which was even a fantasy of hers. I never felt cuckold or humiliated, I was just happy for her. And she done several things to make me happy.

 

I'm with you. I feel the same way. It's always been a pleasure for me and my partner.

 

Yes, wanting your loved one to receive pleasure from another man isn't cuckold. It tends to be more in line with hot wife where the husband likes to share her sexually with other men. He likes seeing her having sex with other men that she enjoys and is willing to either let her go alone or participate.

The term cuckold had morphed from its original definition from the 17th Century. Then a cuckold was a man with a wife having affairs with other men and the husband raised the offspring from those affairs as his own.

 

I wish I could find a label for me. Hahah ahahaha, Sometimes, I do wonder with my voyeuristic nature, if I dont enjoy it more than my partner.

 

You would be a Stag. A Stag either watches the wife, the Vixen, seduce another man or joins in. Stags usually play the role of the voyeur either by sitting back and watching the Vixen have sex with her Bull. Or he may join in, wait for her while she meets her bull at another location, then, upon her return, enjoy the story she has to tell which leads to sex with her.

If you want to label yourself the call yourself a Stag. And hopefully your wife is going along with this willingly and not just to please you while really not wanting to fuck other men. This does happen sometimes and when it does it does not end well eventually.

 

Thanks for the label, Lol. I've been married a few times, and one did do it for me. Your right, at the end it wasn't very good. The other seems to truly enjoy it. Which is a good thing, now that I am older and have some problems with ED.

 

I found this interesting, as a European, an article comparing cuckolding in Europe to the USA.

Why cuckolding is a more popular kink in the US than Europe
Why cuckolding is a more popular kink in the US than Europe, according to a sexual fantasy researcher