Cuckolding, The Intellectual Fetish

Absolutely, you’ve nailed it. There’s an air of jealousy but also confidence on my side. I also want her to do something while she’s with him that would shock me.

 

An Australian researcher several years ago did a well-conducted study on cuckolding fantasies among men in the US and UK. These fantasies are very common, but those with a willing partner and a relationship strong enough to make it a long-term lifestyle far less common, of course.

According to the study men with cuckold fantasies tended to have above average education levels, incomes, and professional achievement. Leave IQ and intellectualism out of it. Like all kinks involving subordination and submission, it's an escape from the pressures and expectations of regular life. Similarly, submissive sexual fantasies are more common among high-achieving women than among those without the formal pressures of leadership in the rest of life.

Two things to keep in mind. First, being cuckolded is overwhelmingly a male fantasy. Women who are naturally inclined and internally motivated to cuckold their male partners are fairly uncommon. Second, if the idea is distasteful to her, and he pressures her beyond private roleplay and pillow talk, and into making it happen in real life, the relationship likely will not survive. Some couples can make it work, but most cannot.

An interesting finding of the research was that about 2/3 of men who have cuckold fantasies include small penis humiliation as a component. It's important to the husband that the wife explicitly tell him that his penis is small, and tell him or show him that the bull's penis is larger and more adequate for her sexual needs.

 

When we played, it was all about fun. No one wanted to humiliate their partner. I will admit seeing girlfriend get a bigger penis, was a strange feeling at first.
Now who knows what to expect.

 

Same here. It's not about humiliation for us, thou each to their own.

 

An update to this. They have sorted a date of the 25th of March. They’ll stay a night at a hotel. I’m wondering what I’d like to happen, if she can FaceTime me while she’s being fucked or giving him a blowjob maybe……In an ideal world, the ultimate would be to secretly watch the whole evening!