I started on a relationship with my roommate's wife a few months ago which has turned into cuckolding him. I am curious about something. Is it somewhat normal for there to be a different scenario inside the bedroom vs out? In the bedroom she treats her husband as immature and needy. She ignores him and mildly insults him. Outside the bedroom they act normally. It would appear that it's just a sexual fantasy being played out more than an indication they actually relate to each-other in that way. Does that make sense?
I totally get your confusion and yes absolutely, in my personal experience things are very different in and out of the bedroom, but as weysally said, it's much more complex than that. Most sexually adventurous couple will probably have several dynamics in their relationship depending on context. Take me and my bf. When we are by ourselves, during "normal life" (not that there's been much of that lately) we are on a level ground, respectful of each other, very caring, we hardly ever argue. I wouldn't dream of hurting him under normal circumstances, and to our friends and family we must seem like the most conventional couple ever, even boring. But then, he's a cuckold and he's turned on by humiliation, so there will be times (even by ourselves) when I sense that he wants me to needle him, so I'll oblige him. I'll mention how horny I am and how much I miss my bull's dick. In these situations I become more dominant, even if it's just on a verbal level. Things can escalate when we're having sex, I get much more vocal about how inadequate he is and I'll always finish myself with toys, exaggerating the contrast between his poor performance and the pleasure I get from the vibrators. Again, there's a mutual understanding that we both get turned on by this shift in dynamics. There's no acknowledgement of it, because it would spoil the game. At the most extreme end of the scale are the shared experiences with my bulls, where the humiliation can be quite severe, but this has been a gradual process. As with every addiction, you are constantly looking for a higher thrill, you get progressively desensitised and the dosage increases. So we started with relatively little interaction between me and my bf during intercourse with my first bull, and only mild dominance, but over time that has changed. He needs more and more psychological pain to be inflicted on him, and I must confess that I get a real thrill from inflicting that pain. But only because I know that's what he wants. I can't speak for your couple, but I can predict that the change in behaviour that you noticed during your sessions will only get more noticeable. All you can do is go along with it, that's what you are there for. I don't mean to diminish your role in this, you may well feel that you have a great relationship with them both and hopefully you are getting a lot of personal fulfilment out of it. But at the same time, you should never forget that in their eyes you are probably expendable. You are there to aid their fantasies, there will be others after you (if there aren't already) and if you want it to last, you have to figure out what turns them both on and provide it in increasing amounts. Think of yourself as their drug dealer. And have fun with it! x
Humiliation and cleanup (eating the cum out of the wife) are not part of all cuckold relationships, though. I can't see how anyone would want to be in that type of relationship 24/7. I can barely see that with d/s (BDSM) ones.
As it is said, "She's a lady in public, a whore in private." This analogy works for both partners with the majority of married or exclusive couples. Their sexual lives are private from the outside world. Either one or the other is the aggressive one, sometimes both, regardless of the scenario chosen. It could be cuckold situation as in this thread or BDSM, swinging, swapping, or many other sexual fetishes that the partners enjoy. But when a public appearance is made the couple seems to be in a perfectly normal relationship. Fetishes are taboo and kept very private away from any outside knowledge. It's rare that family or friends are aware of any adventures outside the norm. To guard of disapproving discovery many couples cover their activities in such a manner. So they will act and interact as expected even though once they are in a private setting their lives are totally different. The way the OP's friends are acting makes perfect sense.
I often wonder if all sex isn't just role-playing to some degree. I mean, who's really 100% "themselves" when having sex? It's a game, right? Even when I masturbate in front of my bf, I don't do it the way I do when I'm on my own. He'd be so disappointed if he set up a hidden camera and recorded me fingering myself. Basically he'd think nothing's happening, he wouldn't even know I've cum. And believe me, I feel it and I fucking love it. I just don't get the urge to externalize it the same way I do when he's there. Even during intercourse, a lot of what I do is for his benefit. Don't get me wrong, I don't fake orgasms or anything, but I do act things out. Doesn't everyone? Anyway, going off on a major tangent here... I guess all I'm saying is, the OP's friends are definitely role-playing!
My wife has only cucked me when she's pegging me, and that I enjoy. She's never shamed or humiliated me during our MFMs. I've shamed myself after I've cum and she and our friend are still going at it. His cock is somewhat bigger than mine, and each time she came with him it felt like a punch in the gut....insecure, jealous, inadequate. Although I loved her getting what she wanted, and as exciting as the MFMs were, I'd just get too excited and would cum sooner than I wanted. After I came my emotional roller coaster left the station.........and was all over the place. Would I like to do it again these years later? Hell yeah! Mentally and physically I'd be much more prepared.
Do you mean physical or psychological pain? I think there is always some psychological pain, that is the thrill seeing your beloved being taken, penetrated and possessed by another man. Like you, it escalates.......
My gf loves it when she dances with guys and can feel them getting hard and pressing into her. She says it is like she has "caught them". If they are the right height she likes to lift herself up a bit, open her legs, move her hips so she can get the hardness pressing into her pussy while still dancing (slowly) She loves that feeling how much they want to be inside her but can't. Just some thin material stopping them.
My gf says that. She can relax with number one with no anxiety about whether she will cum as she knows there is another one on the way. That is particularly the case as the first guy cums, she says she loves feeling him flooding into her knowing another one is about to take his place
My wife and i used to party with this couple a lot. His wife and I would dance and she would tongue kiss me and press her body against my erection. Her husband would dance with my wife and have his hands all over her ass. This went on for some time without anything happening. One night, over at their house, we were dancing again, and his wife whispered in my ear, lets go to the bedroom. I looked at my wife and she smiled, as she was really enjoying herself. We went to the bedroom, and we both got naked. We had some wild sex. I could hear my wife screaming in the other bedroom as her husband was pounding her. Once this started, we swapped once a week. We still had hot sex together, but it was much better than ever before.
Yes, i fucked her when we got home. She was full of cum. She also was more willing to do things she would not before. It helped our boring sex life. We both learned a lot of things.
Fucking her like that, full of cum is so exciting. Fucking a girl after another guy has had her is so sexy and hot. Also a good way to make things more exciting. Fucking his wife is also super hot. There is something very naughty but thrilling to unload into another man's wife, making her cum har as you fuck her.
Exactly. Its bad, I know but a real thrill. Taking something precious and especially as from my experience the wives really love it and are incredibly enthusiastic.
If the husband doesn't know, he's not being cucked. He's just oblivious to the fact that he has a cheating wife. If they want a cuck relationship they have to both be on the same page. He needs to know if she's been with someone else, but preferably watch and listen while his wife is getting fucked, and hear some humiliating comments during and after the sex. One morning after a particularly hot MFM I asked her how she could cum so many times with him. She said it was because he was bigger and better than me. That hurt, but I got over it. I'm more in to the hotwife/stag scenario. Ex wife had a bull for 6 mo, and at times when she got home she'd tell me the details.......how many times he made her cum, how many times he came in her, and his big dick felt amazing. While it somewhat shamed me, I was also turned on and could wait to reclaim her.
Does she make you clean his cock up, with your tongue, after he withdraws? Does she ever make you bend over, and take it in the ass, while she watches?
