You need to face these and only these two options: Having one sex partener all your life with which you could do everything you want to, even the most kinky ideas. Or Being able of having all the sex parteners you want in your life but only performing intercourse and only one time per each.
Two questions, does "all the sex partners I want" mean "each of the sex partners I want" (i.e. I want an individual I get that individual) or "any number of sex partners" (but not nessesarily everyone that I want) Second question, what's the penalty if I break the rule I choose?
I have never stooped so low as to make this choice. Luckily, I have both and more...since, I can have sex more than once with whomever I want.
I voted creativity also. I'd rather have that one person I could experiment with rather than be promiscuous any day. New partners can be fun but it's like mindless sex to me since I don't have any connection with them.