Crazy sensitive gag reflex

My husband and lover both always want blow jobs before we have sex. I dont mind it but sometimes my husband just wants a bj and asks if he can cum in my mouth. I have a super sensitive gag reflex and usually just the thought of it makes me gag...when he has done it, I've gagged and had to spit it out immediately...how can I get over this?

 

You gag when he cums, but not while his cock is in your mouth? That’s not your gag reflex. That’s you not liking it when he cums in your mouth. The gag reflex happens when something is inserted too far into your mouth/touches the back of your throat.

Have him tell you when he’s about to cum and then keep just the head of his cock in your mouth. Then suck like your life depended on it and keep breathing through your nose.

 

I gag when it's in my mouth if I think about him cumming in my mouth...as soon as I feel it hit my mouth or the back of my throat its game over for me...

 

That's a psychological issue about him cumming in your mouth. Have you told him you'll suck him if he promises not to cum in your mouth and provide warning? Perhaps if you know he won't cum in your mouth you may be able to enjoy sucking him and not gag.

 

Yes he always warns me and I usually can tell but sometimes I do it just because I know that's what he likes.

 

I have a problem gagging when a cock goes too deep into my neck. But as far as taking his cum, that just requires practice. Of course I suspect some would also say my problem could be resolved with practice also.

 

I don’t see a problem with Angela!

 

Wow people are talking about this? I kind of like the feeling that I control his pleasure. I control where and how he comes. I just know by how he acts if he is close. Then I go a little bit faster. Trying to push him faster to come. I don't spit it out. I just swallow it.

 

This is how you should feel when providing oral...The giver has total control whether providing for a man or a woman. That control needs adjusted based on his/her body movements and sounds they make so to repeat what gives the most pleasure and never, never be in too much of a hurry. As far as deep throating goes I'm pretty sure most men totally enjoy seeing their entire manhood disappear into someone's mouth/throat. The feeling for the receiver is more than amazing and for the giver (in my case) the feeling is also amazing knowing you've swallowed all of him and he'll most likely never forget it either.

 

I have the same issue. The taste and sensation of it hitting the back of my throat makes me gag too. I can handle the dick in my mouth as I habe complete control over where it is in there.

 

Same here. The taste gets me bad. His diet can help with that though. He goes meatless and low fat for 2 days and drinks plenty of water and adds in some pineapple juice. I don't know if the pineapple juice does much but he likes it and it's good for him.

I also keep control over his dick. I'll edge Him for a very long time before I let him cum. As he does I angle it so it strikes the roof if my mouth. That's not nearly so bad.

I still don't swallow but he doesn't seem to mind. I mean good grief I'll keep him on the edge of orgasm for 30 to 45 minutes... By the time I allow him to cum he's begging and shaking from head to toe. He likes it.

 

That's really hot, Susan, Wow!

 

By having a good teacher, of course and I might suggest one, that cums highly recommended...

 

I've had many women tell me, that for not liking the taste, they just swallow it, that much faster.
Keeping it in their mouth, for spitting it out, just prolongs it....

 

We all have our talents. That is NOT mine. I've tried. Hubby doesn't like anything that I don't want or can't do. He finds my discomfort a turn off. Makes sense because my pleasure turns him on so much...

 

Amen to that!

 

SusanD and Kat - Very hot ladies !!! Being in control, edging your guys, driving them wild - that's the stuff of dreams. Hopefully your guys return the favor.

I don't need a racy, red corvette, - just give me a hot, enthusiastic, sexy, cuddly woman. Best thing on the planet!!

 

LoL. He sure does!!

 

You guys are REALLY connected. That's the ideal marriage!

 

And who would that be?