I'm not really the type to hold grudges against people, because its too easy for me to understand mistakes. I do feel that people deserve second chances, not only because everyone fucks up, but because I know that I am bound to make mistakes as well, and I cant cast someone off for messing up if it is something I could have done myself. Anyway, I'm not saying that this will be something I will forget, but I am saying I can forgive him for it. Wild Dave, I totally understand what your saying, and it definitely wouldn't be worth it if it would be a relationship circled around suspicion, but thats also not a relationship I would be willing to be a part of so it would never be something I would consider jumping into with someone, much less someone I genuinely care for. I'm happy that so many of you are giving me advice and helping me out, I haven't really been through something like this before and you guys are making it a lot easier lol.