Counselor screwed me

ooh your cold

=P

 

Wow, now who's being harsh? lol

 

You wouldnt wish to have sex with me anyway, so it's all good.

 

well, i would be surprised if the gay scene condones abuse... is that what you are trying to say?

well, yes... he should lose his job and look for alternative employment imho... and it makes no difference if it is a little or a lot of touching... boundaries were crossed that should not have been, and it is not up to LG to think about the feelings and situation of his abuser.... man, that would be well fucked up...

 

Agreed. If LG is genuine, and being totally honest, then the counsellor should not be working in that profession, end of.

 

have you never heard of healthy boundaries?

 

I think he is unaware of them or doesnt believe in them, if that post is anything to go by...

 

BULL**IT....

The Only Criteria That Has To Be Taken Into Account Here ...........Is

"THE HEAT OF THE MEAT"...

If The Meat Is On Fire, The Brain Is Automaticly Overidden....

It's Called " Raw, Animalistic Lust"....

And We All Suffer From It....



Cheers Glen.

 

that's what i'm thinking... i know loads of gay men and women who have perfectly healthy boundaries, so i don't really get where these guys are coming from...

 

Believe me, I most certainly do not suffer from it. lol But then, being de-sexed will do that to you.

Its hilarious seeing people making fools of themselves preaching about things that they have no concept of...

 

i have that too, (raw animalistic lust), but i'd still never cross that kind of boundary!!! not at the expense of someone else... someone i am professionally bound to care for....

 

So Pleased To Hear That, But Before I Make My Next Reply, Would You Kindly Answer

A Couple Of Questions......

(1)..What Country Do You Live In..??

(2)..Are You Male Or Female..??

(3).. And Do You Really "Live In A Box" As You Say You Do In Your "Personal

Profile"........

(4)..Are You Gay......Or Straight.......??

People Who Are Not "Up Front And Honest", Get NO Respect From Me....



Cheers Glen.

 

i live in the UK, i am female and it's not a box, but a fairly small flat in London... now what is your question?

 

OK,

I am a virgin. I've never EVER had a relationship, never been in love, never been clubbing. Never gone to bars and flirted, never even enlisted on dating sites, I barely even look at people LOL

Yet you Lilly, someone who has been freshly fucked, someone who probably sleeps every night within the arms of another is saying

I am the one with no sense of boundaries
LolOLOlOLllOLLOlLOLo

Tell, me this

What was the first move. Did he/she reach out and touch you perhaps, or vice versa.... did this person ask you first? a pat on the arse?

So appropiate wasn't it huh?

 

.............:willy_nilly:



Cheers Glen.

 

he asked me if he could kiss me and i said yes... and for your information, i am not "freshly fucked"... we did that over a year ago now, and i am still waiting to get back there so we can do it some more... it was very nice indeed i sleep on my own until i get back to him what is your point and what has it to do with boundaries?

 

I would like to point out right now, that not all virgins have the same attitude as enk. lol

 

OK.

so the next person I see that I like, I will walk up and ask them if I can kiss them
Your partner did it? why not I?
It must be appropriate!

of course not.

My point is, don't assume that your happy fantasy romantic wonder-land applies to everyone else.
And my other point is that I do have a sense of boundaries thank you very much.

You're partner crossed boundaries when he asked you.

 

Oh My God......We Are Honoured To Have Amongst Us, Yet Another Virgin...

And For A Few Minutes There, I Thought I Was The Only One.....



Cheers Glen.

 

Comedy isnt really your strong suit, you should stick to your day job methinks.