Could you sleep with your own brother/sister?

i dont follow the bible. I take it as a piece of literature and not some self-steering dogma.

...and stop trying to skew the christian perspective with your conspiraCY theory bullshit lol even though it is entertaining

 

No I could'nt.

 

you are gonna regret that when you are older!
i know when you are young and expirimenting, a boy is a boy. and a penis is a penis. but i suggest you chalk it up to a silly thing you tried, and leave it at that.
when i was quite young, we kids and my cousins were playing outside and slept in a tent. well, one thing led to another, and it turned out to be 'show me yours, and i will show you mine.' it is okay to be curious, but i can guaruntee you that it will not be good if you conitnue.

after all, how many people are still friends after they have had a relationship? what are you gonna do, tell your bro to move out?!?

you will have regrets if you continue this..i am sure!! go out into the big world..and then you will see all the fishes out there!!

 

There is a little more to it than that. Certian genetic abnormalities/syndromes are associated with incestual offspring as well.

 

I could never. But I do see how a bond you can have with a sibling can surpass all others. It's like two straight girls who have such a close friendship, that they are in love, sometimes the best and only way to express those feelings of true caring is by engaging in sexual acts (oh god...*touches self* lol) It could just be curiosity, and maybe the first time you've ever had feelings like this before? I'd like to put money on the fact that you'll grow out of it one day, but maybe you wont. Then you're going to have to deal with a loooooooot. My half sister and her step brother (not mine) fucked a lot and they grew up together since they were like 5. It creeped me out a lot. And my grandparents on my mamas side were like cousins or something....that's kind of weird.

 

Actually, it doesn't defy nature. It defies most cultures, yes. Animals in nature will have incestuous relationships. Some African tribes, the night before they give their daughter away, the father will have sex with her to ensure that she was a virgin before her marriage.

To answer the thread, I could never do it but it's more common then anyone thinks. I would seriously consider putting an end to it because it's not worth the hassle that may come later. You could ruin your whole family, get pregnant or be disowned.

 

wtf....i repeat wtf. kill yourself

 

wow u really seem to know alot about the subject

 

I pretty much agree with RetroGroove_Grrl however be aware that you may be in violation of the laws of many states.

 

Im so sorry i've posted this thread , i just shouldnt have told it anybody ,
But,,, I just want to tell that my brother and me have lived in different families till now (we have different mothers ), so when i saw him for the first time he was just a man to me (he's 29 yo) and i didnt feel him my brother,, just a man..thats all, so please dont abuse me anymore, im feeling so much down and lost , ,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,
Ive just thought the HipForums are the most liberal and friendly ,and i could tell anythng here ,
Sorry guys,

Sona..

 

suicide time?

 

Is it funny for you,, i wonder ?
are you laughing ?

 

Whateva just do ur own thing. I don't have a sister but if I did I definately would not sleep with her.

 

ok,i've talked to others who had had or concidered the same questions & experiences, & all i cann say is the way they were waffected by it..years later.. it had a severely detrimenal affect on theyre lives.. i mean severe mental issues.. but i've also talked o a few weirdos whho like to lie about this for some odd reason i've never understood
maybe you should look into it further, & not just the fake fantasy crap thats everywhere online..i mean look into online incest survivors forums or support groups..look ayt how people were affected by it the rest of theyre lives..

 

Sona you shouldn't pay too much head to what other people think, in life you will always have some people that agree with you and others that don't. By all means you can listen to advice given, but you shouldn't feel that such advice must be taken. It's hard enough trying to figure out the good advice from the bad let alone beat yourself up over the judgments of those who don't even know you, or the situation you are in. Even if you did ask for it by posting such information on a public forum and thus advertising yourself as a free punchbag for the more opinionated and narrowminded out there.

You need to look to yourself and decide for yourself, whether this is right or wrong for you, and for those around you.

And thats the hard bit, accurately predicting how your actions will affect you and those around you that you care about, both now and in the future.

I am sure that you are already aware that incest is illegal in most states and because people have been socialized to belive that incest is fundamentaly wrong (whether for biological reasons or not) you will need to expect such extreme reactions from your peers on the matter of sleeping with your sibling.

At 16 you are very young, and I don't mean this to sound patronizing although I am pretty sure that it will, but what you feel now for your brother is likely to change in time, as you mature emotionaly, and if you pursue a romantic or sexual affair with your brother now, the chances are that you will live to regret it in the future, as others have already pointed out.

Society might view your situation in a slightly more favorable light due to the fact that you were never brought up with your brother, and as such, have never looked upon him as a sibling, but your relationship is likely to be deemed unacceptable by society none the less and you should perhaps consider this when trying to figure out the consequences of your actions in the future regarding yourself, your brother and your family.

As someone has already said, I doubt you will find the right answers on these forums, and at 16 it might be daunting for you to seek outside help from a professional, but that may be what you need to do in order to get as unbiast an opinion as possible.

My advice personally would be to nip it in the bud now, as it's likely going to cause you more heartache than happiness in the long term, but thats just one opinion of many, although I suspect you will find it to be the opinion of most of society.

Best of...

 

Follow your heart.

 

it's wrong.

 

yea pretty much, it's the internet, i can laugh at pathetic,stupid,wrong,nasty things ppl do because they are stupid enough to post on a forum for help with situations 99% of the population have no experiance in.

 

*Cringes* I could never sleep with my brother. Even if he is only my half brother...I just...couldn't. *Throws up a little*

However, honestly, if you are 16 and he is 29...he's obviously taking advantage of you. No 16 y/o and 29 y/o have anything in common to feel a sexual bond with one another. In most states he's a pedophile...just my opinion, of course.

 

The closest I've ever been to incest must have been around age 14. My mother got a new boyfriend. His daughter came to live with us...she was cute so we slept with each other.