Convo it up

idk. i know he broke some kids collarbone but the story he told me was because he worked at walmart and someone tried to steal some kind of gaming system and he tackled him and broke his collarbone i guess.

otherwise, i don't really know. i barely know him.

i feel bad about feeling weird about him coming onto me so quick though because with my ex, i only knew him for maybe a week and i asked him out and our relationship lasted almost 3 years. so maybe i should be more openminded. but i'm a little scared

 

this is him lol.

he had long hair but he cut it off




..and he constantly refers to me as 'love'

 

Sorry this is not meant to be mean, but He looks like he's forty in that pic.

 

sounds like you don't like him very much. depending on your morals, you could do several things. these things include telling him off, making your ex jealous by being with him, using him for sexs/drugs, or ask him to slow down so you can get to know him better.

if you know for a fact he's not your type, i suggest options 1-3. if you think he's your type, i suggest option 4

 

eric, i think he is like 19 or 20. i'm 17.

i don't know how i feel about him. i don't know if i like him or not. i'll probably go with option 4, then depending on how that goes either ask him out or proceed with one of options 1-3.

 

haha the combination of options 2+3 are killer.

it's a win/win.

 

What the fuck? I feel like I'm a fucking mom to my folks, and I've always felt like this since I was like 10, and I just stopped by their place to grab my laundry, and my dads shitfaced, and as I walk in, tries to hide his bottle from me like I'm a fucking idiot. I don't know what to say to him, he's a grown ass man, but his alcoholism also landed him in jail/ ruined his marriage/ almost had him lose custody and the love of me and my brother. I don't want to be around it anymore because he's been violent with me in the past and smelling alcohol on his breath literally sends me into fight or flight mode. He's been sober for like 6 years and now hes starting drinking/drugging again.

What do i do? what do i do?! :/

 

Fuck that I have to do 50 this year alone, and then 50 more hours next year. Not to mention I did 40 hours in the past two years for school. My school is ridiculous about Catholic Service

 

well you can't really help him unless hes willing to help himself, bailey
try to like force him to stop i guess.. if you find booze in his house, pour it down the drain, you know the works.

@heather.. he just asked me out. i said 'idk is your main goal just to get into my pants?'

depending on his answer i might say yes. haha

edit: he just replied not in the least.. idk what to say though this is too sudden!

 

Get shitfaced with him and bond

But seriously you should just tell him how you feel and that after these 6 years you gained respect for him, but now he is threatening that respect with his renewed drinking/drugging.

 

I know, I just want to shake the stupid out of him. I'm probably just going to write him a letter saying "Youre a grown ass man, but you are stupid. I cant change you or make you do anything, but I'm not coming over the house until you sober up because it makes me too upset". Gaaahhh. I was sooo piseed when I got in my car, but then Carry on Wayward Son came on the radio, right at the lyrics "lay your weary head to rest, don't you cry no more" and as lame as that is, it made me feel better and let go a bit more and realize if he's going to drink himself to death, I can't do anything.

 

well i guess i sort of know how you feel, but sort of not. i tried to help my ex but thats when i really learned the hard way that no amount of pressure or anything like that is gonna change anyone unless they really want to change themselves.

 

I like this advice.

 

so tell him so! be like i want to be friends first, or some corny shit like that.

 

i told him to let me sleep on it, and that i want to hang out a few times before i can make a decision.

 

Yeah, its just bad news bears when its your parents, like I've put my mom in rehab before, and met with her counselors and set up therapy for her and everything, and she is still a drug addict. It's just like no matter what I do, they are still going to get really fucked up, and drugs will always win over their own kids and family, and that's fucked, and tonight pretty much confirmed that I'm doing my internship with drug addicted teens so I can stop these kids from having their own families and fucking them up. Looks like this drug and alcohol break i'm on is permanent. Good times.

 

well i just asked him if he could drive so he could like pick me up or something and hes like "not till may i had my license suspended"

this should be a good one

edit "high speeding twice"

 

i need to stop all together. like i don't really smoke anymore and i get drunk very seldom, but i use alcohol to self-medicate and if my depression keeps getting worse and worse i'm afraid i'll eventually be an alcoholic.

 

My parents are somewhat heavy drinkers too, but fortuneately they are pretty responsible about it i.e never drink and drive/drink at work and such, but it still doesnt change the fact that they pretty much drink a decent amount each night and the toll its prolly taking on their bodies.

 

amen.