Controling the PC muscle

So I recently acquired a new book, "the multi-orgasmic man" and I have been trying really hard to get control of the PC muscles in order to forgo ejaculation while still experiencing orgasm. I have gotten to the point of feeling a difference between the two but I can't for the life of me time the tightening of the PC muscle. I understand this is a unique question but I am wondering if there are any guys who have gotten control of the PC muscle and have any pointers. Thanks for your time

 

That's what I've read. I have been reading as much as I can on the sex since I have no xp in it.

 

I have the control thing totally in my favour and I end up sometimes going too long and not being able to cum without really slamming her.

One thing I did when I was younger was to masturbate but slowly and take time and this started things off.

Next when I have sex I spread my legs/knees so I push with my abs and not my ass. As soon as you push with squeezing your ass you are working towards cumming and that is what you want to avoid.

Now I totally understand that a lot of woman want you to rub your pubic area to theirs to get them going and if you spread your knees it takes a lot of pressure away but I countered that with tons of forplay and making sure they came before I got on.

I make sure that they are really ready and you can't just stick it in there for a dry run...if it's not slidding in you are in there too early.

Peaking is also very important till you can really control and that is the best feeling, you have to find that point where one more stroke is too much and you explain to them that when you stop or slow down you are just trying to make sure you can keep going.

When she is laying under you watching you moan in total ecstasy because you are right there she will come to enjoy it as much as you, it makes my partners see that I am getting something all the way through the session even thought I only cum once, at the end and sometimes hours and hours later.

I don't normally get on and go for hours but with oral, and switching positions it can get a lot of fun. If she won't suck on it with her juices on it then learn to go wash it and if you won't go down on her after you stuck it in there then it will get boring.

It's all about practice and patience but I have had partners tell me that I ruined them for the rest of their life because they can't replace me.

I'm only average sized (6.5") but when you switch it around it can be totally awesome.

Like when she is on top, get her to pull towards your chest as much as she can without getting out and when she goes up and down she should be getting a G-spot full of dick.

If you get control then once she is cumming then don't stop, slow down a little but just keep going and after a while you should be able to keep her there for as long as you want or till she tells you she is going to black out.

I don't have to ask/beg for sex because they normally are craving it all the time. Once you get them cuming for hours they want more.

 

I used to spend hours masturbating but only cuming once and sometimes not even finish, I'd wait till the next session or the session after that. When you start off worked up like crazy it's really a lot harder to control that second session, you want to cum so bad but the key is to resist the urge and it will pay you back in the long run.

Masturbation in a bathroom for 2 minutes in the morning is the worst if you have issues with premature ejaculation.

 

At an early age, I discovered that I could use my PC muscle to speed-up or delay my orgasms. I also discovered that I can bring myself to orgasm without touching, just by rhythmically squeezing my PC muscle (like doing Kegels). But I have never been able to separate orgasm from ejaculation by using my PC muscle.

 

Using Aneros massagers you can do Kegels and control the movement of the massager. As stated above you have an orgasm or multiple orgasms without ejaculating. This can go on from 30 minutes to hours. When you finally do ejaculate, it is more of an overflow of prostate fluid than the normal shooting ejaculation. Usually the fluid is very warm and the orgasm is very enjoyable. Afterwards your body strobes for hours. Depending on the massager type, you can be completely flaccid or have a stanch erection.

 

I think that it just comes with age. As we get older, their is less lead in the pencil and half the time we have less energy to get it out.
Perhaps you have unlocked the secret of the young girls who have 'daddy' issues.

 

It's a skill you learn, really. Honestly, I've been through that book, and it's nothing really but edging yourself close on and off repeatedly. It's really an awesome feeling, over and over.

 

This thread is a few years old, so I have no way of asking the OP what he means by the PC muscle control, but if he means squeezing the PC muscle tight during orgasm so as to hold ejaculation in the same way one would when holding pee, then I would totally advise not to do that. He should stop practicing this right away as I used to do the same thing and ended up one day ejaculating with some specks of blood in my semen. After that initial bleeding, this was a recurring thing for the next couple years. Not recommended at all.

There are better methods of acquiring control where delaying ejaculation is concerned. The start-stop technique is one, and what this really does is it allows you to understand when you are about to have an orgasm, and thus you can take a break when you start having that urge. I have explained this in a little more detail in another thread as well:

What A Sensual Man Does When He Is Alone And Turned On

Warning about the above link is that the OP's post is rather long, and he does get into multiple methods of achieving orgasm where some of the aspects are not relevant to what we're talking about here. Not saying that my reply isn't long, but it is still shorter compared to the original post. However, it is a pretty fascinating thread so anyone who is interested in the topic and is patient with long posts should give this a read.

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