Life is one continuous 'Lent' for me. I have seen some of those porn videos in the editing rooms and all the work it takes to cut out all the sections where the actors keep bursting out laughing. It amazes me that people actually take the stuff seriously and it is sad that they end up judging their own sexual performance by a load of playacting.
I don't know if the OP had any notion of giving it up really. He seems like the sort who'd post a thread if he had a cough!
He wants to have more respect for women, and to realise that in reality, women are NOT so easily seduced. And that if you want to get one in the sack, you have to buy them dinner and prove yourself!
I've through some of your posts, and what you've said may have been good advice, but you put things bluntly at times. You catch more flies with honey than you do with vinegar. Ease up on the OP - it's an addiction remember.