Considering breaking up

I think you are staying together because it's easier. I think moving would be the responsible choice, not "running".

Not that it necessarily makes it the wrong choice. But I think you have a poor justification for your choice.

You have planned to be with him. You have planned to stick to your commitment. The idea of moving back, of going somewhere where you might be able to find a job better - where you could be happier - is against everything you thought your future held. I think calling that running is absurd.

 

In May I'm going to take a shuttle and go visit my family for around a week. I'll see what I feel when I go and then decide what to do. I keep going back and forth and both sides make me nauseated and scared.

 

Babe, I was in a similar situation to you, and him and his family ended up making the choice for me.

Take care, whatever choice you make, but it sounds like you may have more of a support network back home.

 

i am in no position to give advice i will just say this....will you be more happy moving in with your family? what will make you happy in that situation? what will make you happier than what you have now? i think that should and would answer what you should do next.

 

love the new signiture wiccan.

edit: i liked the old one too but this one made me laugh a bit more

 

You think all those feelings are just about your nephew?

By the sounds of it, its mostly about your location, if it is way too hard to get a job where you are now, you need to do the move...yes everything does come down to money.

Dont listen to the other chics, you are one of those Supermom ones, you arent going to put up with any guy 24/7 once that little dude and dudette comes along, and you are not going to want to share

 

It's so funny to go back and read these old posts. Looking back on it, I made the best decision to move home and break it off. Last I heard he was dating a new girl, and was working at Whole Foods and he's still the depressed sad sack he was when we were together. I hope the girl at least taught him how to cook because jesus, he couldn't even make me a grilled cheese. I learned his family's recipes and cooked them because he couldn't boil water. Lol

I still don't know if I am fully gay or sex with him was so horrible he turned me off men completely lol

 

lol

 

oh wow look even Duck posted hehe.