Confidence issues with size of penis.

Hi,
To get right to the point, I’m about 5.5-6 inches long and 4.7 girth.
I’ve felt so humiliated about the size of my dick that I never pursued women and would literally run away from them to save myself the embarrassment. Up until recently that is.
I’m now 32 years old and have my first girlfriend, she is 23 and lost her virginity to me.
She says she is happy with the size of my cock. But in my mind I’m convinced that she is lying and feel that it is only a matter of time until she decided that she wants to feel a bigger cock inside of her. (Just to further backup my theory, I wore a cock ring last time we had sex which makes me bigger/harder. She said that was the best sex has ever felt with me so far... knowing that I can’t do that for her without the use of a cock ring is very humiliating and bothersome.
This not only affects my relationship but affects my whole life from a psychological stand point. I think to be a man in this world and have a small dick is one of the worst things that can happen.
We can’t just go out and get a dick implant like you can with boobs jobs, I have extensively researched this.
I don’t know how to handle this and it is bothering me everyday.

 

So just wear the cock ring?

 

Does she make you feel humiliated or is this all in your head? (No pun)

 

She hasn’t said anything bad, she always compliments my cock. It’s me that’s convinced it’s too small

 

You sound about average size to me. Men are the ones who worry about size the most. Ask a female and she will probably say big is good but not so big it's painful. Men want painful dick numbers that impress other men.

 

Okay, well...just speaking from a woman's point of view, if it feels really good, size doesn't matter. But, it sounds like you have to feel better about yourself, so maybe try to work on that, because when we feel down about ourselves for whatever reason, we can sabotage our relationships.

 

if you dont have fork, learn to eat with your fingers.

 

LoL. I get what you’re saying. But getting her off isn’t an issue, I can make her cum with my fingers or my dick.
My issue is with how I feel about my size

 

Yeah, you’re right. Thanks for the feedback

 

Your dick seems to be of average length.

Most of the nerve endings in a vagina are in the first four inches. The vagina is also a potential rather than an actual space that will conform to the penis.

Some women like to have the cervix jostled during sex. This can be achieved with an average sized penis though, using a deep position like forchette (face-down doggie style).

There's really no practical sexual value to a bigger than average dick, other than a psychological fascination with size.

The big dick fascination seems to be something heavily promoted in recent years. Imho, it's an element of psychological warfare against men, and against white relationships.

 

Yeah, my girlfriend is really small (5’4”) and is easy to please. So it’s definitely not an issue of not being able to make her cum. It’s more a psychological issue with me. I’ve watched porn since I was 10 years old and have always felt inadequate of my size compared to what I see online and in videos.

 

It's important to realize that porn movies aren't reality. The women in those movies are acting.

I'm not sure if there's a way to deprogram yourself.

 

so i see your username is a big old lie...

and like everyone else said, you described an average size penis. not sure why you're so worried about being about the same size as most guys.

yeah totally. let me call my friend who wrecked his car in high school and can never walk again, and remind him that at least his dick isn't small.

 

It isn't the size, it's the personality.

 

Lmao, ok bro. Call him up. Let me know what he says

 

to be perfectly honest, he may have a small dick, i haven't seen it. also, we lost touch after high school. he was just the first example i came up with for someone who might be worse off than a guy with an average dick.

 

I figured as much bro, I’m obviously aware that there are worse things. I was being a bit dramatic to get my point across that it can have a large impact on ones psyche.

 

First of all....your problem started by watching too much porn and thinking those guys are the norm. They're not. Secondly I can can tell you on a personal aspect that I too for years worried about my size. When I started going to the nude beaches and nude resorts I realized that I was acceptable in size. My wife also reassured me that because I wasn't overly large it benefitted me in the bedroom. She said she would not participated in some activities if I had been larger. Peniscsize is a visual sex enhancer is all for him and her both but really means nothing during the act. Could be she stated how good it felt when you used the cock ring because you were actually more confident and did a better job at what you doing.

 

I think porn has everyone thinking that 8" is average and is giving 50% of men a cock size hangup. Research shows that 5.5" is right in the middle of average, so just go have fun and focus on connecting with her.

 

I find vaginal intercourse painful. So, I would not be interested a porn star size penis.
Also in my opinion, ramming something long and thick in my vagina is not the way to pleasure me. Good, skillful, and sensual foreplay is what I’m looking for. I’m sure if you’re taking care of her, she is honestly happy with what you have.
Do you give her orgasims orally? The added pleasure with the cock ring may have been more from the increased stamina. Just a thought.