LOL I love all these posts. You guys were giving me what I was hoping for. Condoms are SUCH A DRAG! I despise them! Awesome stuff. Thanks again everyone
My 12 year girlfriend and I have anal without a condom regularly. It's great. No worries. It is advisable, however, not to go "back and forth" with the vagina. It can lead to an infection. Have fun!
Be well hydrated beforehand, so that after you blow you can urinate and flush your urethra. As for lube, I recommend water based, as they don't seem to absorb smells and little attachments so much, and are easy to wash off. An enema doesn't achieve anything towards infection control, as just washing doesn't kill bacteria. To have a sterile rectum would mean a dead girlfriend. Enemas are good to de-bulk so you can ram your meat inside an empty passage, and not be trying to punch your way through an obstruction.
even in a committed relationship, with partners tested, anal is risky due to easy vectors to get infections.
Oh yes, we are planning of thinking about the concept of giving some thought to considering perhaps maybe discussing the entire concept of exploring the possibility of introducing some degree of anal. Penetration. After she thinks about it. And talks to her mum and dad. And best friend. By the time you stop trying to plan the whole thing you will find that the guy next door has already done her in the butt for three months and put the videos online.
If youre doing it with your girlfriend, no condom needed. If youre doing it with a stranger, wear a condom.
With my first few girlfriends (that were into it), anal was for when we didn't have a condom. Never had any problems.
I find condoms uncomfortable for anal if he uses one. They seem to cause more friction. He also tends to have a harder time entering me. I never use them.
I would think that having anal sex with anyone (without using a condom) would be very risky bacteria wise ? Even with using an enema beforehand would it be still just as risky?? With a condom being used, at least you can still use plenty of lube regardless of times you spend penetrating.
yes i think anal sex (though I've never had it) is kind of risky for the guy just because a lot of bacteria goes into the urethra. For the woman, it poses a risk if there is STD involvement since you do get micro-tears in the mucosa of the sphincter and there is blood-blood transmission. However, I do imagine that a lot of lube is required with condoms as they add another layer and more friction. But who knows, I've never done this.