condom broke i'm only 15

Discussion in 'Sexual Health' started by 60'slover15, Mar 14, 2007.

  1. dudenamedrob

    dudenamedrob peace lily

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    When you put your dick in her, you accepted the responsibility of raising a child........grow up and deal with it.
     
  2. Grewviness

    Grewviness Member

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    Bwahaha.

    Sucks to be you.

    If you're not old enough to handle the consequences, you shouldn't be having sex.

    Go watch Spiderman like all the other boys your age.
     
  3. cobcottage

    cobcottage Member

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    Sorry about that:( (Hugs you probably need one) Definately take the advice of the posters above, and please try...alternatives to sex from now on.

    :)
     
  4. verseau_miracle

    verseau_miracle Banned

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    I agree with whoever said sex isnt always about children and its unfair to say anyone who doesnt want children shouldnt be having sex. Im 19 now and would raise and accept a child should i get pregnant (even though i dont wish hat to happen). I was however experimenting age 15, as im sure many of us were, like this kid, but i was then incapble of raising a child

    And at least he tried (although yeah 3 times broken is silly)

    But i also agree with the others in that if youre going to play adult games, do it the adult way. Get the morning after pill, talk to her about b.c, get you both tested and learn to use condoms effectively

    Good luck
     
  5. L.A.Matthews

    L.A.Matthews Senior Member

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    You are probably the most intelligent person on this thread, because some of the others are acting like stupid cunts.
     
  6. Nalencer

    Nalencer Dig Yourself

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    Don't post your age if you're going to make comments like this. It just makes you look really stupid.
     
  7. fountains of nay

    fountains of nay Planet Nayhem!

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    Whilst you're watching Sabrina, by any chance?
     
  8. dudenamedrob

    dudenamedrob peace lily

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    This made me laugh out loud :) mainly because I just now noticed his age.
     
  9. dspiel

    dspiel Member

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    Whoooaaaa folks, such bashing. Whether or not 14-15 year olds should be having sex, the issue here is appropriate advice.

    1) There IS a risk, albeit small, that she could get pregnant. Small. Nevertheless, I'd advise playing it safe, and if possible, get morning-after pill (although 5 days out now that won't work).
    2) With a broken condom, there's a risk of STD's as others have said. So be sure you both respond appropriately to that risk.
    3) Condoms should not break that easily, so spend some time getting used to condoms so that they don't break. Make sure it's the right size, follow directions, handle them carefully, and if her natural lubrication isn't enough, use extra lube. Without lubrication of some sort, you're asking for trouble.
     
  10. meishka

    meishka Grease Munky

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    if the condom breaks once you replace it.
     
  11. WayfaringStranger

    WayfaringStranger Corporate Slave #34

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    preggers. good luck finding a job that can feed you and pay the child support.
     
  12. mighty_thor

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    The fierce wrath of the Mighty Thor has been kindled against all those who have posted smart-a$$ answers here. I am especially disappointed by certain members of this forum that I thought had a higher level of compassion. Aren't hippies supposed to be KIND?

    How about some compassion for the boy?

    Liam / 60'slover15:

    Please ignore those here without any class.

    1) You are probably safe, but don't take chances. You need proper medical attention. Seek confidential counseling from someone who has adequate medical training. I'm sorry, but I don't know where to advise you to turn for this help.

    2) Whatever the outcome of the tests, please be willing to live honorably with the outcomes. In the event that she is pregnant, you may be called upon to make the first really adult decision of your life: how to deal with the pregnancy. If so, think long and hard about what choices both of you will be able to live with. If she is pregnant, both your and her parents need to be involved. It will not be pretty to start with, but after the initial uproar, they should be able to help more than you can imagine.

    3) Once you get past this crisis, you really should get some better information and preparation regarding birth control. Sex is a wonderful thing, but it is also an adult thing because it can have some very adult consequences. You have to be ready to deal with those possibilties if you are going to play. I'm sorry about that. That's not me being some moralistic prude, that's just the way things work.

    (Two other thoughts: It didn't take long to go from [thread=212368]I wana finger my girlfriend[/thread] on January 2nd, to [thread=224837]condom broke i'm only 15[/thread] on March 14th, did it? And, what WERE you doing to break 3 condoms??? I've never broken one.)

    I really do wish you well. Consider yourself virtually hugged. Please let us know how things turn out for both of you.
     
  13. Musikero

    Musikero Lifetime Supporter Lifetime Supporter

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    I only ever broke a condom once, which can happen sometimes. Anyway, follow the sensible advice here and ignore the smartass ones. As for the condom breaking, hmmm...are you storing and using your condoms properly?

    Heat weakens latex, so don't leave condoms in a car that's sitting in an outdoor parking lot in the middle of the day or near any heat source. Use only water-based lubricants, not petroleum jelly or any oil-based ones. Do not attempt to wear more than one condom at a time, they're not designed for that. Pinch the tip first before you wear a condom to prevent air from being trapped inside. And since this is the third time the condom broke, maybe she's really tight and not wet enough and you're both really rough?
     
  14. TransAmRocker

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    15 year old boy

    ^ you said it...BOY!!!!!!

    50/50...she could be pregnant by your pre gunk, then again she might not be. I think you're gonna have to wait it out son.
     
  15. Loveminx

    Loveminx Sports Racer

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    if you cant handle consequences don't have sex...
     
  16. ~peace~

    ~peace~ Senior Member

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    hahahahhahahahahahaha fuckin right!!

    idk...just wait till she gets fatter then nail her in the stomach...home abortion right away!

    (jokin here people....)
     
  17. ~peace~

    ~peace~ Senior Member

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    oh apart from the "hahahahhahahahahahaha fuckin right!! "
     
  18. SunnyDays

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    You're not supposed to put it on feet first...
     
  19. peachybabie

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    Well i know that it would suck to be in that situation. But when you have sex make sure your ready for every possibility. And make sure you knwo exactly how to put a condom on because ive had sex many times and its never broke, or even it maybe to small of a condom even. But yea if you are really worried about it get her checked out and the morning after pill works to
     
  20. hippiechick85

    hippiechick85 Member

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    sounds like u need to wear a smaller condom. also didnt u just post in another tpic that u havnet had sex
     

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