Cock addiction or totally bi?

Same, my last bi romantic relationship? I was 26 maybe.

 

As you guys contemplate the subject, please keep in mind that "bisexual" does not necessarily mean "homoromantic" - you really don't have to like guys like that to have fun with their pricks and in whatever ways that "fun" winds up meaning for you. I personally do not know a bi guy who isn't into cocks and, yeah, um, they kinda come with the territory, don't they? How you like them is totally up to you, but I have a problem connecting interacting with a man's ding-dong with a fetish, which is defined as a form of sexual behavior in which gratification is strongly linked to a particular object or activity or a part of the body other than the sexual organs, oh, like a foot fetish, for example. So, by definition, cocks aren't subject to fetishism. Is it "addictive" to suck cock? Oh, hell, yeah, it is and getting boned in the butt can be pretty addictive as well; ditto for handling dicks and, really, what's not to love about a guy's prong?

There's nothing wrong with feeling that emotional connection with a guy but I like to remind folks that while us bi guys can have sex like we're gay, um, we're not gay and while some of us are effeminate, it's not all of us so seeing a guy who's good looking may or may not make us want to cum in our pants or otherwise make us swoon because, bluntly, we don't like guys like that... but we sure do like having sex with guys. Just some stuff I think y'all need to consider when responding to this posting. Without a doubt, I am 100% bisexual and, yes, I know what it's like to be in love with a guy and to be in a relationship with him so I guess you can say that I've come full circle in my life - but do not confuse me with a gay man or assume that just because I'll suck the soul out of a guy through his cock that I have romantic interests in him or we're gonna be cuddling on the sofa and staring deeply into each other's eyes in between swapping spit.

You don't have to have "all of the sex" that's possible so you can be okay with a guy blowing you but not okay with sucking cock; you can be totally into being fucked by a guy but not of a mind to fuck him and, at least in my opinion, kissing has always been optional and more so when there are women I won't kiss or want to be romantically entangled with - and there's no rule that says I have to with men or women. To JS420, would a trans woman be the best of both worlds? Only if she still has her cock; any trans woman who's undergone the full transformation doesn't have a cock anymore.

One of the first things I learned about being bisexual is that people think that I like guys like I do women... and that is so far from the truth because I don't - and no "outside factors" are ever going to convince me that I have to deal with guys like I deal with women. Bisexuality isn't all about what you do or who you do it with; it's about why you've embraced it, how you think and feel and, again, there is no rule that says you have to be all romantic with men if you're not feeling that because JS420 is right when he says that men are hairy, rough, and smelly; I don't think that being promiscuous is a bad thing since it's gotten me a lot of dick and pussy.

Just saying.

 

I have no attraction to men at all, just their cock.
Can't keep my eyes off of women, and love having meaningful relationships with them.
With men, I just want to blow n go. Ideally, don't even ask me how my day is going. Lol
I'd love to find a gloryhole nearby. Haha

 

That’s is about well said as I have ever heard. That’s 100% me. I like the sex with men but have never wanted more that that. I will say I
Totally 100% bisexual as well

 

I can’t remember the name of the theory. But I think it helps me understand that I’m more bi than cock addicted, contrary to what I thought before. If I see a sexy hairy daddy beach, imma check them out for sure. Love me a DILF. But if it’s just a jacked twink, nah. Doesn’t do it for me. Now, I’m still addicted to cock. Because I feel like I could suck a cock if someone that I’m not attracted to physically. Guess I’m both.

 

I'm glad you found someone supportive of your desires for cock. Pleasure is pleasure. As long as you're not hurting anyone, enjoy yourself.

 

I would probably say a little of both. I do believe that I have leaned towards being bi. I'm definitely romantically involved with a woman, but strongly desire the urge to experience a real dick in both my ass and mouth. Getting turned on as I type, by the way . But, yes, as some have already said it's more sexual. Nothing romantic. A FWB type of relationship. We're not cuddling or anything, but if you want to hang out and chill then fool around if the moment hits, I'm down with that.

 

Total cock addiction here. I’m a size queen for sure. Hours spent in awe looking at 8plus inches. I agree there is a gratification I also get from taking them in my mouth. Even though not so attracted to them I’d still like to strip in lingerie for them.

 

I know what you mean so do i

 

Cock addict here, and it took me about .2 second to become one during my first blowjob. Good thing I loved it, too. My friend had his cock in my mouth so often I barely got a chance to breathe.

 

I am not attracted to guys, never would have imagined having sex with one, then I met my to be gf, to be wife, everything changed. She opened me up to a new world of possibilities from the very beginning letting me know threesomes and more will always be a part of her life and the guys have to be 100% on board with all bi activity. She does not want anything to ever hinder the sex flow. Sucking cock with her was not so difficult, she'd almost had me sucking mine a few times while stretching and fed me tons of my own cum. You're kneeling kissing, a guys has his cock right there, she sucks it all over pointing at your mouth pressing your head towards it, kisses you as she introduces you to the world of dick, what are you going to do? For certain you let it happen kissing, sucking together, next thing you know he's fucking your mouth and giving you a nice mouthful of cum. I enjoyed him so much we sucked him off 4 more times before he left. We talked about how hot that was and how much I liked it, not only the act but the cum. I was very surprised by that. Sure I've eaten mine but there is something totally different about taking it straight from another guy's cock. Then one day came the whole fuck a guy in the ass. To me that was the ultimate step of bi-ness. No way I ever wanted to fuck a guy. Well I say that but prior to, I'd fucked many mouths of males with my wife right there with them both sucking on me. She it'd be no different than fucking them in their mouth. I knew that was not going to be the case. But when we got to the level of where I was actually fucking guy's mouths I was sold on that.

Then she pointed out that her thoughts on the difference between taking her anally and taking a guy of course point out the reaction of a guy when hitting his prostate. What had me leaning to do it was how cool it felt to be done anally with a reach around. I wanted to see what she experienced when she did that with me, it was fun. Then she reminded me of the first thing she'd told me before us getting sexually active, not to waste her time if I was not open to bi sex, adding that it would turn her on so much to see my dick going in and out of a guys ass she'd be willing to do anything. She was/is a woman of her word! Getting to handle a guy's penis in this position was the topper (lol). Hooked me on fucking guys in the ass. Something about it is WOW!

For me it is all about the penis. We have an amazing piece of machinery there. They impress me multiple times daily and I can never get enough of them or the cum they release. I'd say I am addicted to cock without a doubt but not the guy. A great looking cock and someone who knows how to use it is what it is all about for me.

I have been having many threesomes as of late. My wife has been unable to participate more than handling so it has been me and a few other couples. The dynamic is very different than with 4 especially without my wife in the mix. Strange being with another woman like this.

 

I thought about m2m for years (jr high) didn't experience my first until I was 32. Thought I would never do more than stroke and suck. That was until I met a guy and we started hooking up regularly. We were FWB to each other and over time we started to explore more and more. We started kissing and making out. WOW what a rush of excitement. Kissing a guy sure adds to the fun. Before our relationship ended we done it all. (he retired and moved away) We didn't have a romantic relationship but we did have a hot sexual relationship. I am happy that we explored more than just sucking. Kissing, making our and lots of m2m body contact sure adds to the fun. To all the bi men that hasn't kissed a guy you should try it.

 

I started out only interested in a guys cock. After sucking and getting sucked and likening that I wanted more. I let a guy fuck me and boy did that open a new dynamic. It seemed strange after a while that I would let a guy fuck me but I wouldn’t kiss him so that one fell by the wayside as well.
At this point I’m fully bi. I like being naked and cuddling and being taken. Making out while being topped is amazing.

 

I'm frustrated and just want to blow my load, not into romance with men.

 

considering I've tasted dicks way before girls' pussies, and more than once or twice... I was very embarrassed at one point and thought I was gay. But after tasting pussy, I realized that I love the female sex and I love sex with both girls and guys. But I don't look at men and don't dream of getting into their lips - although I won't refuse to take a beautiful dick in my mouth or put my dick in a good acquaintance's ass.So I guess I'm really bi.

 

Hmmm, bisexual or addicted to cock?
BOTH!
I'm definitely addicted to cock so that's one check.
I have an old school view and like it because it was much simpler then and there weren't so many people angry about their choices or whatever. Because I have sex with women and men I am happily bisexual. I don't have to fall in love with a guy to give him a blowjob or get into a good fuck session, I just have to be horny for the unique pleasures of man on man sex. It never crossed my mind to be married to a man but marriage with my wife was just natural. Having our own kids was just natural. And the love between us is shared through much more than sex. It's not for everyone but it sure works for us.
So keeping it simple, SEX with men and SEX with women pretty well defines BI-SEXual. To me. That's the other check.
BOTH!