I'm a virgin so I might just be hilariously wrong, but recently my girlfriend let me go down on her but I couldn't find her clit. Not because I don't know where it is, but because I think there is something different about her anatomy that I can't find anything online about. I eventually found it but it was not how I expected it to be. She is bigger than average and I had to separate her labia to look for it, but instead of protruding outward from her body it was completely flat above her vulva and her clitoral hood was almost impossible to see since it was very small and laying in this flat area. Is this normal? What would this be called? I'd like to look up information about it but can't find anything. I don't know how to get my mouth down there but I really want to go down on her. Thank you.
Just like men women have physiological differences, some of them can be challenging to work with. But good of you to persevere and explore. Yes, some can protrude less than others but it doesn’t mean anything in the pleasure department how stimulation feels
Spread the curtains. It’s at the very top on the inside. Like a bean. it may be more internal than others. Maybe find it with your fingers first
When wife was younger and skinny her labia stuck out like a sore thumb. later after gaining a few pounds it wasn't so promontory anymore, but it's still there.
Yeah you need to spread, peel, pull back that extra flesh to expose the clitoris. It looks like a small “blister” or small bump, when you see it you know it. I knew it the first time I saw one. You can learn some on the internet but don’t waste your time on immature sites
Have her show you where feels best and then go at it, it's a real learning experience. Then you can show her where your frenulum is and hope she catches on to the anatomy analogy.
Growing up nudist you sat on the ground and adults sat in chairs. I was and am gay but you couldn't help but look. I learned we are all so similar yet different. The clitoris was no different. Some actually looked like a small penis, others a stub and most were never seen. Just like us boys and men temperature and especially arousal engorged them and changed their color. After all its the exact same tissue that makes our penis. YES you was sucking on what would be her penis if she was a man LOL
Definitely. But if she’s too shy showing, use your imagination and try things, ask her to give feedback.
Women’s anatomy varies and our approach to them should too. Sometimes with a woman whose clit is covered with her hood you can stimulate her by rubbing it against her pelvic bone. After she is warmed up with that a couple of fingers on her spot isn’t a bad thing.
The first time I went down on my(future) wife, I couldn't find her clit. But I licked real good and eventually made her cum. It was only with her help a couple days later that I found it! But, she told me direct stimulation is not comfy. She likes it better when I rub around it with my finger.
That's interesting. I'm not sure she'd like my tongue to grip her clit since that's pretty sensitive. My penis would be ok as long as she stayed on the foreskin.
Here's a trick, once you find 'it' (remember it has internal wings too - see below) - treat it like a penis. You know what feels good on your cock, just do that with/on/to her clit.
