haha i can understand totally when a person says that to much stimulation of the Clit can be overwhelming. I wasnt always into it because it would be almost to sensitive that it hurt. But after my first orgasm from it. I was like hey this is for me LOL Id say it really all depends on the person. Just like some guys like there balls sucked or whateva.........not all of them do LOL. Or so I have experienced LMFAO peace www.dawnson64.piczo.com
ha ha ha ha ! whateva .... yeah but after a clit orgasm it is more sensitive and needs to be worked slow-ly .... ha ha h ha this is so uncomfortable for me!
I didnt read the whole thread so im not sure if this was mentioned, but im taking a sexual behavior class and my teacher said that some people say that the g-spot is just pretty much the backside on the clit...if that makes sense. Like if you are rubbing the g-spot then it pretty much just hits the clit, but this is all just rumor.
actually, what is the G-spot? i have actually 2 spots inside me that are extra sensitive... one very deep, one in the middle.......... i think that many girls don't come vaginally, because we are brainwashed to think thant all girls works the same ways, that their "G" spots is the only way that can make them come inside.....
To the girls that said it makes them feel like they're gonna pee, take a look at what shadowd_dreamr wrote. You see, usually, its not pee that you are feeling that is building up. It is female ejaculate. It is just a watery ejaculation. The g-spot is basically what forms to be the prostate in the male. In both sexes fuid passes through them. In the male it is part of the semen route. Experts have suggested that a woman should pee first before going for a g-spot orgasm. Then, when you feel the slight urge to pee, then push through a strong orgasm, you may or may not squirt/gush/get etreemely wet. A thicker penis or a thick toy can rub the g-spot well without trying very hard.
Its in the front wall of the vagina. The tissue will feel a little rougher or ringed or bumpy right there. The rougher feeling is from rougae (folds in the tissue for stretching and elasticity). It should be about 2 inches past the vaginal spinchter.
Um in which position should the guy be in order to hit the clit during sex? Assuming "regular" sex, no doggie style or kinky stuff. I really need to know cause i'd like to please my girlfriend and give her what she deserves
I'm not sure what you mean by "hitting the clit" during sex. But you can have her get on top facing away from you and have your knee bent so she can rub her clit against your thigh while she fucks you. It's always a good position for everyone, you get to lie back and watch her do her thing while she gets her clit and pussy stimulated. Not sure if thats what your looking for though.
Well it's not quite what I was looking for. I was wondering how to get her orgasm in the regular missionary position, meaning what to do in order for her to orgasm in that particular position. We are both quite new with the whole sex thing and want to go "normal" before starting to go wacky positions.
yeah man, i know what you mean. my girl actually likes missionary the best, as opposed to other positions. what i have found is if you kind of 'stand up' on her, so the top of your tool is rubbing on her clit, that works well. or, alternatively, you could just give her full penetration and just push on her clit that way. it helps to think a little more about rubbing her that way then just going in and out. it takes practice, it really does. i've been going out with my girlfriend for 5 months and we have just recently started to have great sex. (oh, and not having a condom helps... but be careful, if you must use one, just lube it up plenty) good luck bro
Ah ok ok I think I got the picture. Or actually I'm not that sure about it when you said "stand up on her". Sorry to ask all this but i have to learn eh (Not that I learn to have sex at the computer, but you know) I actually don't wanna go without a condom even though she takes pills. I just wanna be sure nothing happens, it feels better and more safe. About the lubes...where to buy them? I have actually never thought about lubing the condom, sounds kinda nice, I like it when it slides properly. This might also make me last longer, right? Thanks hallowedbethyname, ur really helpful.
From "Mr. G spot" - to guys: trim your fingernails so there are no sharp places on the nails, wash your hands, lube your fingers well, and have your girl lie faceup with a pillow under her butt. Lie on your back between her legs and insert the index and middle finger palm up into her vagina. Feel the inside of her pubic bone (best done after a lot of foreplay first) for a raised mound about two or three inches in. You may have to ask her if you have found it. Make a "come hither" motion with your fingers (palm up) over the "G spot" and do it slowly or rapidly as she directs. Women have it over men - we shoot our loads and have to wait to recharge, but women can have multiple "G spot" orgasms - I know of over 50 in a row from personal experience.
I need some help. I don't know for sure if I'm touching my gf's g-spot or not. If I stick my fingers in as far as possible (I don't have small hands...) I can feel a lump, about the size of a small grape. When I put pressure on and around this lump, she definately gets off, however, it's pretty difficult for me to reach it. I've read lots that to locate a woman's g-spot you stick your finger in and crook it forward, making the "come here" motion, but if I do this I don't reach the lump. Also, the spot I'm feeling is very deep in her vagina, and not up tight to her pubic bone. I don't curl my fingers up at all to touch it. I've looked at diagrams, am I touching her cervix maybe? I dont even know what a cervix is...