Recently my wife and I have had issues that almost led to divorce. Now we are working on things and she recently asked if she can choke me while on top and I said yeah I'll try anything once. Usually I'm the one that does the choking,but I figured I'd let her try it and I really like it. It felt like she took charge for once to get what she wanted which is a turn on. Will she look at me differently of I let her continue to do it. My fear is that she will stop seeing me as dominant and possibly lose attraction towards me.
I believe she will look at you with more desire, more open minded. I see no issues, go with it and enjoy, perhaps this will open more pleasurable doors for you both. Use a little caution...Erotic asphyxiation - Wikipedia
We also do it to each other. The more we try the closer the connection and trust we have. I love that feeling, especially when she does it when I'm not expecting it. If she gets truly lost and in another place when you're being dominant, it won't change a thing. Great that you found something new that both of you love.
Thank you! Glad to hear I'm not the only one lol. I'm still dominant 90% of the time just like for her to go after what she wants sometimes.
i don't mind doing it, it's pretty hot.. i like using my belt almost like a leash... i also never lock the belt in a choking position... i'm real careful who i do it for n i make sure they know what they are really asking... n some really do, like in detail.. had a gothic fuck buddy who liked me to put my knee on throat with all my weight n jerk off in her face... i like it too.. i've choked myself, hand only, while i jerked off... i won't tie shit around my neck if i'm alone... the way screwed up shit always happens to me, i'll be the guy you read about in the paper.. "Man falls off roof and is hung by jumper cables while jerking off for neighbors n watching midget porn on his phone!! "... something fuked up like that.. lol
Don't do it if you're uncomfortable. If you're comfortable, do it until you feel different. I know a girl who likes it rough. Never been with her but she loves getting fucked hard. If she's going to take his load on her face though, she wants him to push her down against the bed...or floor...or wherever and really hold her down while he lets go. Otherwise...no facials. Everyone is different. I don't think I'd enjoy doing that to her if we were together but maybe she'd be so turned on that I'd oblige.
I tried it on my wife one night when she was wanting to be roughed up a little. Yeah, that ain't ever happening again. I didn't go all out choking, but had a firm grip and she didn't care for it. I didn't either, but I wanted to test the boundary to see where it laid.
I've held women around the throat while fucking. Not choking them but firmly in my hands. It's not as good when doing it doggie but if I'm over her missionary I can look her right in the eyes. It sends a power signal that I have her and she is submissive to my thrusts. If she's on top I like being held down by either my throat, shoulders, or chest. But applying pressure to cut off my breathing will be met with resistance.
A few times while I have been in the doggy position and my girlfriend has been fucking my ass, I have felt her hands on my neck. Not really choking me but applying some pressure as she fucked. I asked her about it later and she laughed and said she liked feeling that she was choking me even if she really wasn’t doing it. I like it when she is dominant like that while her cock is in me.
That's the stuff that makes my eyes roll to the back of my head and start drifting off to a different place.
Hey if she wants it and you're comfortable, go for it. I found out early on that my wife loved to be choked a little bit during sex and, honestly, I wouldn't have done it without her bringing it up first but I fucking love it. I can go from being good to wanting to cum in seconds. So, hey, if you both like it then do it.
Well said! My wife is the first I've ever done it with. And like you, she brought it up first. She sent me a video of some wonderful BDSM. Hands tied to the bed posts and fucking while choking the woman. After watching it she asked me if I would be comfortable doing that to her. I said yes. It was a no brainer due to me also loving it done to me in the past. We take turns now and love it.
