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Discussion in 'Dreadlocks' started by Luxiebow, Jun 15, 2010.

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  1. vigilanteherbalist2

    vigilanteherbalist2 Senior Member

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    I am trying to open an audio file with the extension .rar
    My professor claims that it will just open in Media Player. I was under the impression that an .rar file is a zip file that must be extracted with WindowsRar. Yet, when I open it in WidnowsRar it just opens a text box with a bunch of random characters.

    Help!
     
  2. aFoolOnaHill

    aFoolOnaHill Proper Villain

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    did you try opening it in media player already? (just checking you know :D)
     
  3. bradly3223

    bradly3223 Guest

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  4. dreadlocksftw

    dreadlocksftw Visitor

    I'll probably fail summer school and have to do another year of high school.


    Fucking fuck.


    What do I do? :l
     
  5. gretaoto

    gretaoto Senior Member

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    Why are you failing anyway? Do you not understand the work or just being lazy?
     
  6. dreadlocksftw

    dreadlocksftw Visitor

    I don't understand the work. : /

    Math is so hard...
     
  7. aFoolOnaHill

    aFoolOnaHill Proper Villain

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    What kind of math?
     
  8. gretaoto

    gretaoto Senior Member

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    Maybe get a tutor or do a group study?

    Math is a lot less hard when you stop asking why, just do what they tell you with your numbers/formulas and it works.
     
  9. Sarah_Again

    Sarah_Again Inspires Irrelevancy

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    I think math works a lot better when you know why it works, then when you don't know what to do, think about what needs to be done and work it out.

    If you genuinely work hard and study, turn in all of your assignments and pay attention and STILL don't understand it isn't likely you will fail. That is, at least here there are a ton of different alternative diploma requirements and programs to help everyone that diserves to graduate graduate. My step mom works with special diplomas at my school and deals with all types of students, not just the convetional 'special' diploma cases. Odds are if you do the work and still can't get by you'll need an alternate course to meet graduation requirents, but still graduate on time.
    At least, that's how it works here.
     
  10. mindtraveling

    mindtraveling Member

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    Last night I drank a bit with my friend tim in celebration that I am going to move in. The night turned into a roadtrip to ohio to get fireworks (all the goodies are illegal in MI) but once we got to ohio, we realized it was 11 pm and everyone was closed. We mulled over what to do over a cup of coffee at a gas station ended up driving through ohio, through to kentucky for no reason other than we can .... random night eh.
     
  11. Sarah_Again

    Sarah_Again Inspires Irrelevancy

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    Aruba, twice
    Hawaii, three times
    Jamaica
    Mexico, twice
    California,
    Georgia,
    mofo'ing japan,
    the keys a ton of times,
    and now caymon islands....

    I would like to be invited to go on vacation with my mum just onceeeeee :(
    'we need alone time, we'll take you next time'
    NEVER
     
  12. vigilanteherbalist2

    vigilanteherbalist2 Senior Member

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    Ok, I totally fucked up. Bad.

    So, throughout this entire relationship I've been in, my boyfriend has never trusted me. Always asks if I'm cheating, questions my whereabouts etc. I have graciously complied, trying to make my life as transparent as possible, and to show him I'm deserving of trust. I have never done anything to betray his trust. Until now... I hung out with a male friend (whom my boyfriend knows that I had a sex life with over 5 years ago), and I purposely neglected to tell my boyfriend about the visit so that I could avoid conflict in our relationship. Yesterday, he straight up asked me if I had spent time with said friend, and I told him yes. He hasn't talked to me since then.
    I don't know what to do. I know its my fault for lying, but he certainly doesn't make it easy for me to talk to him. For the past two years I can count the number of times I have went out with friend without him on one hand. I have purposely avoided any friendships or activities that don't involve him out of fear he would acuse me of cheating.

    Now I've basically proved him right, that I'm not trustworthy.

    I am so screwed.
     
  13. Ahmad Rashad

    Ahmad Rashad SenĂ³r Member

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    wHoa whoa whoa

    saying that made a mistake I would understand. Saying you "totally fucked up" is crazy talk.

    It sounds like you've done all in your power to make your partner comfortable. You saw your friend and didn't say anything. Sucks, but you told him the truth when he asked.

    Were flawed individuals. I fuck up constantly. My girl fucks up constantly. To think we wouldn't would be rediculous. It's how we handle things that's important.

    I dated a girl when I was 18, she cheated on me once in the beginning of our relationship. It fucked me up. All trust was gone. We were together for 4 years. I spent waaaaay too much stressin her being faithfull with me. Made shit tough, for the both of us. It's no way to spend your relationship. I regret to this day the way I was then.

    After that, I grew up and realized people are gonna do whatever they want. Stressing the fact that I'm not in control of shit is pointless. Your man was obviously attracted to you, your choices, ideas before ya started dating. The same should be now.

    If he's pissed, let him be pissed for a minute. He'l
    come around. Have a good talk and be understanding.
    Hope things work out.
     
  14. hellodreadhead

    hellodreadhead Beta as fuck

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    I am assuming his trust issues stems from his son's mother not that it matters. Fuck him. If he can't trust you, it's not your problem.

    My advice would be to end it, live back with your parents for a bit until you can get your own place, get your friends back and find a gentleman that won't have a cob on for two days when you hang out with the other sex. You deserve better.
     
  15. Luxiebow

    Luxiebow Senior Member

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    you haven't proved that you can't be trusted unless you did something with the guy! you proved you don't feel comfortable telling him things that you wanna do and that forms the basis of a relationship in my eyes. the comfort to do what you want and being accepted for doing what you want.
    Vig, in my eyes from what I've read there is no way this relationship can end well. The longer you leave leaving him the bigger the pain will be and the more time you've wasted.
    This man seems to need something else and you need to be free of him and concentrate on yourself.
    Life is too short for fucking around with.
     
  16. zilla939

    zilla939 Thought Police Lifetime Supporter

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    jesus H. this post would be almost comical if it weren't so fucking tragic. you have done nothing wrong. here's my 2 cents, take it or leave it.

    first of all, if he asks you frequently if you are cheating, it means 2 things:
    1) he is really insecure
    2) he is likely the one (thinking about) cheating

    second of all, a healthy relationship harmoniously incorporates both TRUST and FREEDOM. being with someone should never mean you have to stifle your dreams and wreck your life. being in a relationship where you are basically a doormat is codependent and soul-crushing... the fact that you actually feel bad for hanging out with a friend is so sad. you should be able to do whatever you want as long as you do it with respect and without malintentions.

    you never have seemed happy with this guy vig, he seems like a manipulative dick, and you seem bitter, weary and beaten down.

    leave his fucking ass and do YOU for a while.
     
  17. phoenixsun

    phoenixsun Member

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    ahmad, hdh, lux and zilla already said it all vig, but i'll second them all anyway - you did not do anything that bad at all - the fact you felt like you needed to hide a simple catch up with a friend says a lot about the relationship though... you deserve a partner who is supportive, trusting, comfortable with themselves and respectful of your wishes as far as friends and lifestyle are concerned... anything less is selling yourself short

    i'm pretty sure a girl like you would have guys queing around the block for a chance anyway ;) <3
     
  18. pypes

    pypes Hot alien babes

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    FFS, vig, for like the 100th time now, leave his lazy abusive black ass.
     
  19. wameron36

    wameron36 Senior Member

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    On a kind of similar topic, I've just lost so much respect for a bunch of my friends last night due to the fact that a couple of them planned and succesfully carried out operation 'we're a bunch of fucking wankers' to this couple at a party where a few of them distracted the boyfriend for a while so as that one of them could try and get with his girlfriend just for the sake of 'lols'. Fucking infuriates me. He is a good looking dude, and extremley charming, but has no morals what so ever. Not a good combination. He admits quite frequently that there are only a couple of his friends girlfriends which he would cheat with. Also the fact that he quite likely cheated with my ex when I was with her. He also took aside another one of my friends and was trying to piss him off, hoping he would crack so as that he could fight him. But yeah, he has lost all fucking respect from me. And the bunch of my friends that helped are just blind, following, dickheads.
     
  20. daisymelan

    daisymelan Professional fence sitter

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    Is this you mandy?

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DrVSits07IQ"]YouTube- Drum Circle Hula Hoop Girl

    hahaha, I know it's not, but for some reason, that makes me laugh really hard. :p
     
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