Changes in vagina after birthing 4 - 5 children?

Just realized I posted in the wrong forum. So am reposting here.

For the woman who have given birth to 4 - 5 children, or for guys who are married to the mother of 4 - 5 children, what is it like? There is the age old assumption that the vagina has been loosened or wrecked after that many births. But I know better than to assume things. Is there a general occurrence? In other words, after that many kids, is it pretty much guaranteed the woman's vagina will have physically changed? Or, as can be physically seen in some women who look as good after 5 kids as they did before, are some vaginas just as unchanged?

 

Been in some women before kids, some after kids, a couple during, and one in all three stages. In general, pre kids they seemed softer, more “pillowy”, juicy and “enveloping” before. During, especially later stage, they were puffy, swollen, and even tight. After, there tends to be less of most of the above. Some much less. Some not at all. Nothing is certain until you’re in it.

 

Somebody must have liked it enough after the first child to keep banging. Just saying.

 

That's like asking does a cock get longer the more erections it goes through? No it does not. If it did, we men would be thrilled with the increased length. But the cock doesn't as once it returns to its flaccid state it is also the same size it was before becoming erect.
Same with a pussy. It is a very resilient organ of the human body. Actually the vagina of all animals is very resilient. The human vagina will stretch to accommodate penises of many different sizes and return to its original size not long after the fucking has ceased. It will not stretch out and become loose. If it feels loose to you that is because your cock doesn't fit it well. Having children will not make the pussy looser either. There may be change to the opening or lips as birthing will tear the tissues. An episiotomy to aid a difficult delivery and prevent rupture of tissues as the baby comes out can prevent the opening from returning back to its normal size too. But the vagina itself, being very elastic and supple, returns to its original adult size.

 

Of course the vagina is elastic and bounces back after intercourse, etc. Understood. Yet, many woman go through other physical changes after that many kids. There are the lucky few that retain their shape after 5 kids but most don't. I understand the burden they carry and the lifestyle factors. However, I believe there is more to it than that. And that is really my question, more specifically with the vagina.

 

I was hoping there might be some rule of thumb. However, I suspect you are spot on.

 

Pretty much. A “soft” rule of thumb, based on my experience, is as you would expect: childbearing is not kind to the birth canal. But it is a weak correlation from what I’ve found and, for obvious reasons, one can not control for the age variable in the sample.

 

I married my first wife in her mid 20's with 2 kids. She was normal build, reasonably fit but inside her vag felt like an open chasm. A ring of firmness around the entrance then it was all flapping in the breeze further in. What a bummer. It took me a while to come because there was not much to feel. She had to close her legs together to clamp down on my cock or she couldn't even feel it up her. How the hell all of this happens has got me.

 

My wife has had multiple births and het pussy is not huge but its not tight, I worried that I was not giving her what she needed. She told me there was no problems, i wasn't sure so I tried a little experiment, one night during foreplay I introduced a big dildo to her pussy. She accepted it with no problem, didn't even complain, just gasped and spread her legs further apart. She soon was going crazy with the big dildo fucking her, multiple climaxes, moaning really loud, hips pumping, it was a site to see and hear. Actually it really turned me on ! Afterwards she admitted it really turned her on as well, she truly enjoyed it. So I incorporated it into our regular sex play. I love sex with a used, well fucked, hot, wet pussy. Its exciting, stimulating, and fun for both of us. I'd love to see how she handles a really big cock, that's going to be my next experiment. Love to see the wife happy and satisfied.

 

I introduced my friend who is very well hung to my wife, she noticed the bulge in his pants, they hit it off exceptionally well. When I suggested to my wife she should fuck him, my wife surprised me, she agreed without hesitation that she absolutely wanted to fuck him, the thought of fucking that huge cock really turned her on, so I set it up. They got together several days later at our home and without any reservations she thoroughly fucked him with enthusiasm and passion, she didn't hold anything back. It was super hot to watch her finally taking a huge cock. She absolutely loved it and firmly stated she wanted to do it again. So the journey begins.

 

Rinsed an only child full time nudist. As a kid you sat on the floor looking up. We saw a lot of vaginas and penis of all ages. Mom was also very open to talking about ANYTHING and as a kid like all kids asked a billion questions. We are all similar and yet all different. The vagina is made for birth and also sex. It obviously stretches out for this. One mom gave birth and I remember over the days after her vigana was at first very sagging and open. Soon it was back to tight and closed. I noticed moms would start to sag with age. I also saw it hanging loose after she had masturbated. These same things can be seen in the penis. I do think it changes them but olny slightly age has a much greater effect!

 

I am an old man and have probably made love to over 50 women. My experience is so much depends upon each woman's anatomy and how they take care of it. I have been with women who have not had any children who have very open or loose vagina's. I have been with women who have had four kids and are very tight. I personally believe if most women would do kegel exercises before delivery and after delivery the vast majority of them would find that their after child vaginas are the same as their before birth vaginas.

 

I can only comment on my wife. Before kids she was the tighest I'd ever had. Now she's definitely looser which I actually prefer.
I put it more down to an age thing rather than a kid thing.

 

It’s a proven fact that women stretch after multiple child birth, especially if they are older.
They do have exercises she can do to tighten things up and get it back to what it was.

 

My nephew has spoken about this a few times. He and his wife are expecting their 10th child this coming spring. The first one was born in 2007 when she was 24 and the 10th will arrive while she is 41. There have been some definite changes due to age and number of babies. He noticed it was occurring mostly over the last several years. He does not recall if it was an issue after the 4th or 5th, but it is definitely noticeable at her current age.

Research shows:

If you stretch elastic a great deal, over time, it fatigues and no longer snaps back entirely. That can happen to the vaginas of young women after multiple births. Their vaginal muscles fatigue and no longer fully contract. In addition, aging fatigues vaginal muscle. Whether or not women have given birth, as they grow older, they may complain of looseness.
Psychology Today, The Rare Truth about "Tight" and "Loose" Women.


The walls of the vagina contain an elastic muscle that is normally folded up, holding the vagina closed tightly. During sexual arousal and childbirth hormones cause the muscle to relax. The vagina is designed to be able to relax and re-tighten repeatedly, without any loss of tone or tissue elasticity. Accordingly, regular sexual activity does not loosen the vagina. But there are limits to the elasticity of this muscle and associated tissues, and a few risk factors are known to contribute to chronic feelings of vaginal looseness.

Risk factors that contribute to vaginal laxity:

1. Age. Vaginal laxity can occur naturally with aging in some women, the result of a gradual weakening and atrophy of the vaginal muscles and tissues over time.
2. Multiple vaginal births. Evidence suggests that having multiple vaginal deliveries can increase the chance of vaginal fatigue and incomplete recovery of pre-pregnancy vaginal tightness.

Toronto Physiotherapy, Vaginal Laxity and Childbirth: Is a "Loose Vagina" Common? Treatable?