Over the years, what have you changed about your technique to improve your oral skills. I know my FWB treats different cocks in different ways just like she handles different men in different ways. But there's no doubt that what she does to me now is different than a few years ago. She says that she learned to keep it in her mouth longer, never really letting off of it to speak of but that she had to really learn about deep sucking, breathing etc.
These two books helped us and I cant recommend them highly enough It goes without saying ,when you change techniques and learn something new, it will be clunky at the beginning . As more practice is done you will find you will satisfy each other . Sound communication is key here so dont suffer in silence !
Over the past few years, I’ve focused on variety including more indirect pressure on her clit (quick circular motions with my tongue over the hood) then touching the clit with the tip of my tongue every so often. Pulling the skin back above her hood is an easy way to expose her clit. Running my tongue in between her labia lightly, then more forcefully and varying speed and pressure. My wife likes long, slow up and down licks over her vulva, she also likes two fingers, one on each side of her vulva with some applied pressure while I lick her. She likes a stiff tongue to mimic penetration also.
IMO the only way to improve is to have the receiver direct you second by second and listen and preform but listen closely. Every girl ranges from very different to slightly different.
My new girlfriend likes variety, changing it up all the time keeps me on my toes. Even if I'm laying between her legs, on my knees or on my back.
My wife was taught to give a bj by her college lover, and he liked things a bit different from what I like. For example, he liked to feel her teeth on his cock, and I don't. It took a bit of trial and error, plus some helpful hints from one of her workmates to get it just right.
