So, when my wife and I were younger, we tried anal sex, at my request. We started slow, learned about it and eventually tried it a few times. I enjoyed it and i thought on a couple occasions she did too. I know the last time we swapped partners with good friends of ours, the other guy got a little rough and went wild without warning. He plunged into her hard and deep and she momentarily passed out. The other woman and I were in the same room as them, and i saw it, so i know what happened. Anyway, for many years after that, she never wanted to do anal with me again and I let it be. Didnt force the issue or say anything. I have watched some good anal porn, as I enjoy it and find it erotic. Anywho, recently there seems to have been a change in her. Our sex life has been slow and pretty missionary, with an occasional doggy position thrown in. One afternoon, i was feeling extremely horny as was she and we decided to go to the bedroom for some fun. We ended up in a doggy position and i was slowly grinding and working her pussy. She pushed me back a bit, and stroked my cock behind her, i assume to see how hard i was - trust me, I was HARD and RIGID! She gave it a few strokes - again, i assume to make sure it was good and lubed - and then said to me-- FUCK MY ASS!! Ram your cock into me and pound me like a slut. I want you to fuck my ass hard. At which point i must've looked like a deer in the headlights, as she had never said hat before, EVER; and now she was asking me to ram my cock into her ass hard and fuck her. After what seemed like an eternity to me, but probably was only a few seconds, for my mind to comprehend what she just said and wanted me to do, she backed her ass up, and placed my cockhead up to her asshole. I instinctively grabbed her hips and pushed forward. I started to fuck her in the ass hard and deep like she asked and eventually came inside her. After we both collapsed on the bed, i kept thinking to myself, what the hell just happened? What brought this on? suddenly she is acting slutty and asking to be ass fucked and talking dirty?? I know, every mans dream , right? But it makes me wonder what else is going on. This is not like my wife to do this. Possible she has someone else on the side, who is doing those things to her, that she is acting this way for? And she is just carrying it over to me? She was like this for a week or two and then stopped. Then started again, and stopped. And lately, she has been using some toys that we have long since stopped using and i have even seen a couple new ones she thinks she has hidden. I am interested to know what may be going on. If she has someone else and she is acting like this, ok. I wouldnt mind being allowed to watch or even join in on occasion. If thats what she wants to do. But i cant help but wonder what has started this whole situation all of a sudden after so many years.
I see what you mean Casper. Maybe take the direct route and just ask her. If you're OK with her having another guy on the side - tell her that!! She may open up and tell you she does have a guy & the other guy re-lit her anal fire. If you're ok with that, and want to watch them, tell her. Ask her if she likes anal on the hard, rough side or more on the slow & gentle way. Let her tell you. Why beat around the bush. You both may be missing out on some fun!
My first wife of 25 years was kind of this way. First few times of anal sex she didn't enjoy it as much as I did but into her late 30's-40's she became very slutty with her ass wanting fucked all the time. I never complained because she would suck me hard and beg to be fucked in the ass and she was wild. She eventually told me she'd been having conversations with her long time girlfriends and a couple of them stated how their orgasms were way more intense with anal sex verses vaginal sex. For close to ten years she wanted fucked in the ass 2-3 times a week providing her with screaming orgasms. We eventually got divorced for other reasons but she was a fantastic fuck with an ass made to be fucked. I hope whomever she's with now appreciates her ass as much as I did.
