Caught with the pr0nz

i hate it. would love to change it, but such is life. i think things will get better with time

 

well it makes sense.

give all your sexy time attention to your lover and your lover rewards you with happiness and then your happenis is rigid with happiness also.

but I agree, pornography can help free yourself to loosen up sexually.
but It can also turn you into a poor sap of a man, wasting seed on intertoobed teleported twats 'n cocks.

 

yay for finding what fits!!! i think jrny and i are well on our way to actually having a functional open relationship. it's taken us 2 freaking years, and we've taken some weird detours. but things suddenly feel different. in a REALLY good way.

but anyhoo, this speaking of pr0ns is getting me thinking of heading over to literotica.

 

I've been caught by...
both sets of grandparents,
momma,
dadda,
and stepmomma...

confronting grandparents is particularly embarassing...

 

It takes about two years.

check out http://www.indienudes.com. there's a ton of interesting stuff other than just the ol' fap fap material.

 

this seems to be a mostly male phenomenon that i have yet to figure out, if it is indeed possible to understand. the addictive quality of the porns.

eh... oh well. each individual has their own unique relationship to everything in existence... why not the pr0ns too.

 

don't be so hard on your fellow "gentlemen"

it's a good release.

moderation is key. alas, for alcoholics, or pornaholics, i suppose it is all or nothing. that's why some people join the air force

 

it all goes back to the fact the men are raised by women

 

it's cuz we're programmed and conditioned to sploodge at the very site of buttseks. and we're programmed to do that as much as we can, for the sake of reproduction and keeping the whole human race thing alive.

and there is some truth to that jackassery!

 

sweet hotness, thanks! oooh, it has a link to IFM! i love that site!

 

indienudes is awesome sometimes. i like some good literary erotica too. i'm all about the imagination

 

I'm not really into porn, I've watched it...but not my thing. Although I don't mind literary some times, I just don't get off on seeing random people fucking.

It's kind of funny, because I'm easily turned on, just not usually by porn.

back on topic, not with Brad, though he probably does, I've found many stashes from previous boyfriends. I just left it, I don't really care. ...if they left it somewhere easily viewable, I'd tease him about it for a bit, in a friendly way though.

 

I don't get why people save porn on their computers. Watch online porn, jack off, wipe your chest, clear private data and get on with your life.

 

we gave all of our porn videos away to the NEEDY.

 

I found someone else's before.. :leaving:

But nah, I don't watch it. Too boring. Not enough crazy ninja's flying around and decapitating government officials in suits. I know guys that watch it and I know one guy whose sister found out he had porn (but didn't see it). Other than that, I'm pretty sure everyone I know has the natural ability to hide it.

 

I remember this one apartment i got, my roomate chad found in his closet under the carpet was a bunch of porn stashed. guess the kid who lived there before forgot it!

 

no.
but my dad looks at porn and it's really fucking disgusting.

not like he does it in front of me... I just see it sometimes, and ewwww

iggy:

 

In my case, I just have an addictive personality. I'll get addicted to green tea, if I don't watch it.

Porn offers escape like any other habit.

There is a thin line in the sand between fantasy and reality. That's the appeal of porn for me- what takes place on the screen happened in actuality, and yet it's very unlikely to take place in my real (as opposed to virtual) sex life.

I'm talking about the scenarios, not the intercourse. The possibility of anonymous sex any time, anywhere- public or private. With a multiplicity of attractive women; getting undressed for me (in the fantasy) instantly and without effort.

I also enjoy the scenario of attractive women sexually initiating toward men in porn. In my life, only fat women do so.

j/k

But I want to cut down on the pr0nz. It's compromising my relationship to women too, I think.

But that's not going to happen until I have a satisfying relationship with a woman. Which is also not going to happen until I find a measure of happiness on my own.

Methinks.