Can't Get Some Action To Save My Life

I'm arguably "young" (27) and desperate to explore my desires and have as much sex as possible before I turn into a disgusting withered old prune. The problem is that I don't know the dating/casual sex game at all. I've tried hookup sites, and my experiences with them are actually depressing. Nothing but oceans of creepy old men in their 50's+ scarring my eyes with images of their hideous decaying bodies. Not exactly "prime meat" in my book... Gag! Why does is have to be so difficult just to find gay guys around my OWN age for just a little fun? I can't really go out to any clubs or bars, so my options are kinda limited. Any advice would be much appreciated!

 

Why can't you go out?
I mean, they won't knock on your door! Unless you invite them!

 

Suffice it to say that my transportation options are... severely limited.

 

There is always a way! Open your options!

 

Well babes, you don't necessarily have to go to bars or clubs to meet someone honestly, and ew what dating sites are you going on? if you are going to be on a dating site just stick to Tinder, it's alittle more easy on the eyes.. and adjust your preferences! My best friend is Gay as well and he always complains about how meeting other Gay guys are difficult, so he actually tried something out of the ordinary, he started becoming friends with more straight people who could connect him to more Gay friends they had as well. Especially considering your transportation issues. Ask some of your straight friends if they have any Gay friends, that you could ya know hook up with, trust me it'll work.

 

Can't use Tinder, I don't have a smart phone.
And I tried the "asking my straight friends to hook me up" thing before... and that was back when I had more friends than I do now.

 

Where i am from gay guys tend to know a friend of a friend.... Once you have the door you just need the bait and know exactly what you want. I tried online before and many we creapy. I have always like making friends cause you never know. Perhaps you are being too limited in your search. There is always bi guys and girls seem to always know some gay guys.

 

I know transportation is an issue for you (and I don't know where in NJ you are), but the Pride Center in Highland Park is a social group where you can meet other guys your age.
There's also GAAMC in Morristown. Even if you can't get to either of these places, give 'em a call and explain your sitch.

Good luck. (NJ here too - feel free to shoot me a PM if you need to )