Can't get pleasure from my prostate

So I've just tried to pleasure my prostate and experience a prostate orgasm. I believe I touched it through a wall of skin. I used cream to make it easier for entry. When I was rubbing it gently for about 30-45 seconds, maybe even a minuite I felt like I needed to pee/poo and I felt a burning sensation in that area too.
Judging by my description am I doing something wrong?

If you need to know any more details then feel free to ask.

 

neither can I. penetration and pressure is nice change of pace. but it really offers me nothing else.

 

Although Butt Plugs & Vibrators used Anally can be pleasurable, as part of the general masturbation experience, I've never even come close to prostatic stimulation this way. However, on the occasion when I first lost my Gay virginity & was penetrated, I was blown away not only by the way I lost my erection whilst being penetrated, but also at how when each thrust pressed against the prostate, it felt like being on the brink of an orgasm, until eventually I couldn't help but go over that brink, and I had a full orgasm & ejaculation from a totally flaccid penis, with no external stimulation - something that, until then, I had only thought possible in the realms of porn fantasies.

 

I am actually straight and I just tried using my finger..

I really hope that I'm doing it wrong and it's not the case that I cannot experience prostate orgasms.. because that would be horrible (hearing how mind blowing those orgasms are)

 

Haha! Ok, first, wash your hands. That burning is usually dirt on your fingers and second, it's not a tickle - two fingers and you find that little sucker and squeeze in between and "down" as it were with more pressure, more like trying to empty a zit than tickle your funny bone...like this is mine. What you are doing is draining a gland bymanual pressure, not "exciting" it by touch. That's where you're missing the "ugghh!" Ahahaha!
Pineman is correct about flacid too, no erection required but present often enough anyway in digital (finger) exams. Penile can't say but I bet my pencil'd drop too! Ahahaha!

 

It's actually quite simple to locate the relative position from the outside. When you're masturbating normally apply pressure along the perineum (base of the penis, approaching the anus), and you'll be able to sense a point that provides additional pleasure, often increasing the desire to insert something into the anus for some direct stimulation.

Depending on the angle of penetration, this is the region you should aim for.

 

Oh.. so I did make contact with it?

I tried rubbing and stroking some round thing inside through a wall of skin (not sure if that was it or not) but couldn't feel anything.

 

*I have no ethical qualm with this as it helps prevent possible infection build up, exercises the gland's function and if performed correctly is safe and no contributor to venereal disease. Just be gentle with your insides fellas and like I said, treat it like a zit (not a blackhead! Yikes!) And use a glove or be sure and wash the salt/dirt off those hands. Be sure and wash 'em after too.
That movie cracked me up and I knew then that this would become a curiosity and auto-pleasure thing. No biggee boys and probably more important for older guys anyway.

 

Yeah, it's like a small walnut right under the skin. You found 'im alright.

I absolutely do not encourage putting anything bigger than said required fingers up there, I wanna be clear about that. Not so sure that's such a good idea and really, be gentle with yourself. 'Roids attack fast enough in life and suck. Tearing skin in there can lead to potentially lethal infection. Just fyi...

 

Why wasn't I feeling pleasure when I was rubbing it?

 

It's a gland, not a nerve center. It requires gentle steady pressure to move fluid inside out. Just tickling or flopping it back and forth won't cause it to drain, which is what makes you blow.

 

I see, I will try it in the near future. Thanks for your informative feedback.
I understand your concern for safety. Is it safe to use hand/body cream as lube, like this:

http://www.netdoctor.co.uk/skin-and-hair/medicines/e45-cream.html

I used it once before and maybe that was the cause of the burn...

 

"This preparation contains cetostearyl alcohol and potassium sorbate which may
cause skin irritation." - that was probably it. Plain old petro jelly or creams with no fragrances will work better. Look for the above ingredients on the label, or rather the lack of them. Anything ending in "ol" or with preservatives that are acidic. Here, we have "KY Jelly" and stuff like "Cornhuskers lotion" but I am totally unfamiliar with brand names there to be able to quote one. "Medical lubricant" or "personal lubricant" are descriptions to look for too. Some are water soluable which is handier (no pun intended) as well.

And no problem. Guys are often very curious about this but very private about "that" so this thread may be helpful for more guys than we know. Cheers!

 

Tried it again and I feel like I found it and spent minuites rubbing it and making motions but didn't feel even a tiny bit of pleasure. What is going on?

 

I am pretty sure you are not squeezing it in and down hard enough. But I could be wrong...if you cum a lot, it won't be really full either. ?

 

Literally nothing happened, I didn't cum or have a boner or feel and sensation.