can't find anyone as open minded as you?

I find the problem is I don't know, as I don't open up re this.

 

I'm a lesbian and I actually enjoy those types of things...except for the fist in the ass, lol.

 

Why is it that hand jobs are not common place anymore, i love getting a hand job everynow and then, last one was on the plane.....blanket over the todger and the wife tugging away....sensational!

 

all the damn time, i can find anyone as open. i cant find a girl for A or a girl to just hang then again i live two blocks from a navy base

 

I will help u lady..try me out

 

I think i just fell in love..... haha but seriously its not that hard to find a guy that does all of that just go to comicon or to a comic store and bam loads of single guys that do that stuff......

 

yes. every time i meet someone i try to get them to have sex with me, and they won't even try it out.

 

Women these days...

 

take 2c-b or something and than fuck him :sunny:.. still probably he wont fuck you that way your body will fulfill your fantasies but your mind might enjoy much more than usually .

 

I wager not as many men want a finger up their ass, as opposed to a finger up their girlfriends.

I had a feeling my point would have been miscalculated, after all, it's a 'free love' sub forum. I can't complain.

 

yeah, dont send them pictures of your cock.

just send them a normal picture of you at first. you get much farther that way

 

I feel the same way. I don't even have any friends that can fully accept me the way I am. Finding a partner is near impossible. I'm always expected to repress certain aspects of my personality, or my fetishes, which are very wide-spread and... well, unpopular. If it weren't for Fetlife, I'd never meet like-minded people in the sex department. And even there, it's hard to find people who even give a shit about my personality, much less I could start a healthy, genuine relationship with.

I'm seriously considering just staying single. I shouldn't have to compromise. Date, but let people know that it will never get that serious. Have casual sex, occasionally, with people who share my interests in the bedroom, and just be careful and live my life without a partner. Doesn't help that I don't necessarily want only ONE partner, either. I'm just the completely opposite of what a "normal" person is looking for. It's like it's only appropriate for me to be me when I'm alone. Well, you know what? Fuck it then. I'm happier alone. When I'm in a relationship though I have to "straighten up", "go into girlfriend mode", respect boundaries, despite how it makes me feel to have them set in the first place.

That's how I feel. >.<

 

Genesisposeur, you seem like a good guy. There's nothing wrong with wanting kinky sex, and nothing wrong with wanting more than one lover. Keep dating, go to kink munches and poly events, and keep being happy being alone. You're 19 years old, and I predict that within a few years you will find one or more partners who share your kinks, are interested in you as a person, and want to help you grow rather than put walls around you. And the happier you are being alone, the less likely that you'll settle for less than you want, and the more attractive you will seem to others, as long as you're attracted to and interested in getting to know them.

 

Thank you. I'm a girl, by the way.

I'll try to be a bit more optimistic. I'm a bit young to think all hope has been lost.