can you tell when someone is lying?

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  1. LornaDoom

    LornaDoom Senior Member

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    My uncle told me he had a way of telling if people are lying by watching eye movements, he was drunk when he told me and I laughed it off..but I have read other things about body movement and things which make it easier to tell if someone is lying..what do you know about this subject?
     
  2. Pressed_Rat

    Pressed_Rat Do you even lift, bruh?

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    I can... like when my lawyer told me that "there is really nothing it can be reduced to" (referring to my DWAI-drugs charge), when simply he never attempted to negotiate a plea bargain for me. Cocksucker.
     
  3. LornaDoom

    LornaDoom Senior Member

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    It is easy to tell when a lawyer is lying
    if their lips are moving, they are lying..I hate lawyers
     
  4. Wizardofodd

    Wizardofodd Senior Member

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    There is a branch of research/study devoted to that exact thing but I can't remember what it's called.
     
  5. hotwater

    hotwater Senior Member Lifetime Supporter

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    Research studies at the Massachusetts General Hospital have shown that most people have a 50/50 chance of spotting a liar; but oddly enough Aphasia patients (a loss in language ability resulting from brain damage) were able to detect lies 73% of the time.

    As far back as the 1920s there were anecdotal reports of patients with aphasia being able to detect when someone was lying; but it was never taken seriously until recently.


    Hotwater
     
  6. RubySoho6

    RubySoho6 Organized Chaos

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    Depends on how well I know the person. My husband can't get away with it. I know that I will always know the truth to any question I ask because he physically can't lie to me. He looks away, kinda squints, his mouth does this funny thing and the tone of his voice changes. He doesn't lie to me but if I ask him something like "Did your mom get me.....for Christmas?" and he knows that she did, he can't lie.

    I had a friend that would lie about things and go into great detail about the lies. She had obviously worked every detail out in her head so if I asked ANY question at all she was prepared to answer it but typically they say that if someone gives too much detail about something it could be a lie. She was also not good at remembering her lies so it was super easy to catch her because she would contradict herself a lot.

    I make a habit of not lying because 1) I'm a terrible liar. You can read it all over my face. 2) It's much easier to remember the truth. 3) Nobody likes a liar.
     
  7. Heat

    Heat Smile, it's contagious! :) Lifetime Supporter

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    If you ask the right question(s) you can usually get a fair read on if they are being totally truthful. Most people, will have tells that are not normal behaviours and they become more obvious when they are not being truthful.
     
  8. usedtobehoney

    usedtobehoney Senior Member

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    Not being able to look people in the eye when asked a question is usually a sign. But I've noticed myself that depending on how I feel about the person asking me, even when I'm telling the truth I will avoid eyes.

    Also there's something like either looking to the left or right, but again, I think I do this when I'm telling the truth.
     
  9. Vanilla Gorilla

    Vanilla Gorilla Go Ape

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    Same applies to females, noise comes out of their mouth, they are lying, simple.

    And i say this mainly cos i want to get th most thumbs down award in this thread
     
  10. Asmodean

    Asmodean Slo motion rider

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    Same here, if I look people in the eye for longer than a few seconds they will turn their eyes away anyway :p So I tend to not look people in the eye (for a long time) when talking to them just so I don't make them uncomfortable. It almost goes subconsciously. Even when I'm not lying :mickey:
     
  11. odonII

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    I can never tell if somebody is lying until I find out the truth.
     
  12. TheGhost

    TheGhost Auuhhhhmm ...

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    I can smell bullshit 5 miles away.
     
  13. Asmodean

    Asmodean Slo motion rider

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    Sometimes the truth is subjective ;) Anyway, I sometimes can detect if someone is lying without finding out the truth, but I don't know for certain which facts they are exactly twisting...
     
  14. TheGhost

    TheGhost Auuhhhhmm ...

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    On the belief trail again, aren't you? :D
     
  15. odonII

    odonII O

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    What is the difference between a lie and simply somebody not knowing the truth?
     
  16. Asmodean

    Asmodean Slo motion rider

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    No, perhaps slightly philosophical :p but not necessarily either. Facts are objective, truths are derived from them and can be subjective.
     
  17. Asmodean

    Asmodean Slo motion rider

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    I think a lie is always intentional, not knowing the truth is not.
     
  18. RubySoho6

    RubySoho6 Organized Chaos

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    Are you talking about the person that is giving the information or the person receiving it?
     
  19. TheGhost

    TheGhost Auuhhhhmm ...

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    People have been questioning that very statement for centuries now. :D

    Whatever YOU believe will be YOUR truth. No more, no less.
     
  20. Asmodean

    Asmodean Slo motion rider

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    So how does that not equal the word subjective? :p
     

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