Can You Feel Horny But Still Get No Physical Pleasure During Sex?

Hi,

This is my first post here.

I recently started dating a girl with a very unusual problem. At least this is the first time I hear it. She's a young girl just turned 19 (I'm 25) so as you might expect she's constantly horny and wanna do it every chance we get. She told me, however, that she never really felt any physycal pleasure during sex - with anyone - even tho she feels horny. Like, she does wanna do it, she's just not getting any physical feedback.

At first I thought it could be psychological, you know, maybe something to do with her over expecting it, or maybe the fact that she's often a little drunk (we like to go out a lot) but then she told me she doesn't feel anything when masturbating alone either. I found that really unusual, really. I's very frustrating for her, and also for me, as you can imagine.

Does anyone here have experienced or seen anything like it?

Thanks

 

No personal experience, but I wonder why she gets horny if she feels nothing during the encounter, it would seem to me that kind of experience would condition her not to get horny. Its also possible shes setting you a challenge to please her ..or gets off to the thought of you getting off and her not, like a willing rape fantasy. Very unusual scenario, thanks for posting this!

 

Lol that's an interesting theory, but no I don't think so.

I don't think it's actually physical cause man does she get wet.

My bet it's her own mindset, like when you're distracted and can't really reach an orgasm, so it all becomes sort of "mechanic", if you know what I mean. Some kind of blockage, aggravated by the fact that she now is "sure" that she won't feel anything, or creating too much expectation. But I won't rule out some kind of hormonal imbalance or maybe her birth control pills (tho she told me that she changed those may times).

I'm crossing my fingers that someone will eventually show up here and say "hey, that happened to me, here's what I did..."

 

I disagree. My experience has been the more aroused, I.e. Horny, the better the sex is.