Can we Stop talking length and start talking Width?

I'm sorry I hate necro posting but this is the weirdest shit I've ever heard. Most woman HATE having their cervix hit, it can be very painful.

Width feels better.

 

I have a pretty much average length penis, at about 6½", but I believe the girth is above average, at 7½".

As I'm Bi, this is great when it comes to having Straight sex, as a thick girth is preferable, by far, to women. However, it can be a drawback when it comes to having anal sex with another man (for some reason, the explanation of which I am unsure of, anal penetration is easier with a woman than it is with a man), as a thick girth can make it difficult, if not impossible to achieve full penetration.

As far as being the receiver of anal sex, for exactly the same reasons I far prefer my partner to have a long, but thin penis.

 

what is the obession with cock size on this forum anyway, and yet all the threads are started by guys. Some men are insecure about their cocks I think ????

 

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Most of the conversations about dick size that I have been involved in were started by men. I think it is because you guys want to turn everything into a competition. :boxing_smiley: Length beyond 4 inches is worthless.

I do my PC muscle exercises every day, so I can accomodate almost any shaft diameter . The only advantage of a thick one is that I don't have to think about squeezing as much.

 

I have to agree with KJ. Scientifically, the nerve endings (pleasure points) are situated along the lips on the vagina not on the rear (if im not mistaken). I would prefer girth over length. When my partner gets to excited and thrusts deep, sometimes I feel pain when his penis touches something (could be uterus?) deep.

Aside from size, technique matters a lot too. So does endurance. And most importantly, emotions.

 

If you have a problem with a small percentage talking girth, then I say length does matter. Learn to use your tongue or get into swinging....

 

6 inches I just measured guess that means i have a fat dick

 

My cock's not very big. Average I'd say. I've never had any complaints -- the women I've been with keep coming back for more. So whatever.

 

Mine is 5.5 long and 6 around.

 

lol wut? Trust me, most girls don't like their cervix to be slammed. If your cock is longer than the chicks pussy is deep then 9 times out of 10 she's going to want you to be careful. I've only met one girl (my current girlfriend) who is turned on by having her cervix pounded. Most girls find it pretty painful.

 

Who really cares about length or girth. You can make a girl cum with just 2 fingers if you know what your doing. And those fingers could be on the hand of a small female.

 

As I have a wide girth I always make my initial penetration very slowly, so as to avoid causing the woman any pain. Then, my subsequent stokes remain long & slow, for the same reason, that is until she gradually becomes accustomed to the girth & I can sense that she's ready to take it harder & faster, when I can gradually increase the thrusting rate right through to the end, but at all times responding to the indications in her body language as to what she wants at any one time.

You only need to watch any porn video where the man might be of an above average 8" - 9" (yes - ABOVE average), and you will see that only half of the penis actually gets to penetrate anyway. The rest is surplus to requirements.

 

For 9 out of 10 women, no penis is too thick, to fit inside.

That doesn't mean that all 9 of them crave a beer can thick cock though.

 

Nothing special? Don't kid yourself buddy!

If it really is that size, your cock is big. Not huge, but still big.

The average circumference is 4.9" according to many studies.

The best place to measure is midshaft. If your glans is thicker, that's good too!

 

Wrong!

More girth can intensify the feeling of being stretched. Some women, not all, but many like to feel stretched open and full. Sure it is a luxury, and not a necessity, but that is why a thick cock does have an advantage.

Here's a post by cheekymiss, from earlier on this thread, to prove my point.

" i ADOREEEEE the first penetration the stretching etc !! my fave part!! "

If the cock were thicker, she would feel even more stretching, and that would be a good thing!

Certainly, there is such a thing as too much of a good thing, so there are limits.