Can only get off in this one way ?

So my boyfriend and I have been sexually active for about four months together now, and it feels great. But I can't finish :/ I can't even finish on my own, with my own hands. There's only one way I can cum, and thats if I bunch up some clothes or blankets together and grind over them up and down for a few minutes.

What should I do?

 

youre a girl? .. have u tried grinding on the penis??

 

What should you do?
You should bunch up some clothes or blankets together and grind over them up and down for a few minutes.

 

this sounds like out of left field but bear with me. i used to have low back problems, in the last several years, while rehab-ing on my own I do many core exercises, this strengthened my core and pelvic floor which got me to move my waist in new ways and I remembered my first orgasm- climbing a pole in 4th grade. This climax was not primarily from penile stimulation rather/ the contraction of the pelvic floor and sort of holding my breath combined with penile stimulation from the pole. I can duplicate this intentionally now when I edge in the jacuzzi bringing me to the edge of climax very quickly.

Play around with your pelvic floor muscles, kind of a sucking in of the gut, use only the muscles that would otherwise pull your monz into your spine I think that's why the pile of clothes position helps you