can only get it up when masturbating

Ive been masturbating about 3 times a day for as long as I can remember but Ive always been able to have sex also. Ive been sexless for the past 5 yrs and now met a wonderful woman but just cant seem to get it up. Im 40yrs old in pretty good health. Im just wondering if anyone else has experienced this and any advice would be great. Its driving me crazy and Im not sure she will be so understanding if it keeps up. Anyone?

 

3 times a day? for as long as you can remmeber? you need more pussy... try strokin first to get it up, then put it in her, and fuck her life out... or have her stroke it for u... i can always get it up, but after the thrid round sometimes i need a little help, and my lady just strokes my dick off untill im solid. then i fuck her guts out.