Can A Good Sex Life And Masturbation Coexist For Couples?

Discussion in 'Masturbation' started by Panama Jack, Apr 14, 2017.

  1. Panama Jack

    Panama Jack Lifetime Supporter Lifetime Supporter

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    My wife and I have a wonderful sex life together. We have sex 3-4 times weekly and masturbate together and separately. We do this for fun, intimacy and our health. We are a senior couple. What do others say about masturbating and routine sex?
     
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  2. NoxiousGas

    NoxiousGas Old Fart

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    masturbation is the tool of Satan and soils the Holy Sanctimony of marriage as decreed by Almighty Gawd!!!!!!
    You touch your pee-pee again in the pursuit of self gratification at your own peril!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!































    JK.......
    just ask the wifey for a blow job next time ;)
     
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  3. Scratched

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    If I had a wife that enjoyed/allowed sex that often, I wouldn't bother masturbating lol!

    But hey if it works that good, keep doing it! Say, does your wife have a sis? jk...:)
     
  4. GLENGLEN

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    Of Course It Can......No Two Peeps Sexual Needs Can Ever Be The Same...... :)



    Cheers Glen.
     
  5. mizzymorrison

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    You just reminded me of Charles Juliani from Truth Hertz! Sounds like his type of humor. Good stuff.
     
  6. iamjustme

    iamjustme Wishful thinker HipForums Supporter

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    It is awesome.
    For 27 years I was married to a woman who would never even dream of mutual masturbation. Our sex life was mechanical and even awkward. She just wasn't that into it.
    We divorced a few years back and I met a woman who is awesome in many ways, but also sexually. She LOVES her nipples stimulated, and I was doing just that and she just started rubbing one out and moaning. I was on another planet. I don't know if I had ever been that turned on before. She continued until she came. Then came the best part, she started to give me oral, then her hand...then she took my hand and encouraged me to do it myself while she watched.
    Now masturbating mutually is a part of the mix. We have intercourse at least 4 to 1 compared to just masturbation...but it certainly adds spice and enjoyability!!
     
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  7. Panama Jack

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    I agree with OP. Maturity has it's advantages. We do have a great sex life, but we let the mood take us where and how to have sex. Sometimes we just masturbate because we know the health benefits of doing it. We think all seniors need to masturbate. We also believe that every one regardless of age needs to have regular sex, even if it is a FWB. I know some will judge us for this stance but we believe mature senior people need this to support good mental and physical health.
     
  8. Klimax2gether

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    Yes vaginal sex and masturbation can co-exists without any harmful effects. My wife and I do that very often and we have vaginal sex at least once a week.
     
  9. Alternative_Thinker

    Alternative_Thinker Darth Mysterious

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    Absolutely yes, we enjoy both. Some days it's straight sex, some days there's masturbating in there, sometimes it's just masturbating. Enjoy it.
     
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  11. Klimax2gether

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    i like your straight forward truth. Do you use toys to masturbate or do it manually on each other? I feel really excited when my wife madtubates me.
     
  12. Keptafew

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    Married a long time and no way would my spouse be open to that. I would love it and have with a mistress who was much more uninhibited. I masturbate now because its the only thing left!!
     
  13. olderndirt

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    It has worked great for us over the past 40 years, but it may not be good for all couples.
     
  14. Tonynewyork6969

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    It works well. I'm 56 she's 46. We both masturbate together and separate and have sex also the daily sometimes
    Several times. Yesterday I jerked off in the early morning, fucked about an hour later and then a fast one with her in the evening. I'm stroking fight now and will fuck her in a few minutes.
     
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  15. wilsjane

    wilsjane Nutty Professor HipForums Supporter

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    Few people stop and look at the simple medical facts.

    Unlike a woman's body that has a cycle, Guys need to give the discharge of their old sperm cells a helping hand. Otherwise it will happen anyway while we are asleep.
    If this did not happen, we would be producing babies that were 10 years old before they were even born. :worried::worried::worried::yum::yum::yum:
     
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  16. Midasflower

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    I enjoy my wife masturbating me almost a much as sex, and I think she does as well as there’s always a huge smile on her face when she’s bringing me to climax. She knows exactly how I like it and what spots to hit.

    We have an active and great sex life but daily masturbation is also important to me.
     
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    Me and the wife have a healthy sex life. Not necessarily routine but steady. Sometimes we don't feel like going all out and we masturbate together other times we take care of ourselves solo. Doesn't affect anything
     
  18. bft4evr

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    I'd say the two go together hand in hand...
     
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    When I was married I would still masturbate often, my xwife would never even discuss it, we had sex on a somewhat regular basis when I proposed masturbating in front of her she flipped out on me.
     
  20. Seanjohn

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    I couldn't be with someone who doesn't want to do more than regular sex and judgemental when you ask for something different
     
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