I discovered my fascination with my ass at a very early age. Though, I’ve never found other men attractive, or wanted to have a sexual encounter with another man, I do like anal play. So, consequently, I have some anal plugs, about 20 and counting. Recently, I’ve tried leaving one in while sleeping. Which in itself is a turn-on. For me, it’s the stretch, not so much the penetration. There’s times when I’ll stretch with all my plugs, others where only a few get to stretch my hole. Shoot, I’ve even given them names, which is kinda different. This might not be the ideal scenario, but after I’m done stretching and have cum, and quite loose, I love the lubricant to hit the floor and splatter, which adds to the turn-on, prompting yet another handjob and additional stretching.
Hello, I lost the love of my life just when we discovered our sexuality. We always think the grass is greener on the other side, which in this case, wasn’t. Anyway, once she and I discovered anal play, it was almost non stop. She really loved me pounding her and I, pounding her. We live in the Southwest of Texas, so there’s lots of desert. We used to have what we called “blanket parties”. We’d go out in the desert in my truck or hers, lay our blankets on the bed of the truck and have our little porn sessions, as she referred to them. When we’d get done with our lovemaking, we had some of the most profound conversations underneath the stars. Mind you, we did this during all the seasons. Our favorite was, Winter, which in the desert, gets quite cold. We live and learn, and sometimes those lessons are the hardest the digest. Well, really like this forum and peoples opinions.
Got my njoy medium plug. I LOVE IT! Will probably get the large size (1 1/2") next. I use silicone lube with it and it's SO GOOD! Comfortable as hell and SO SMOOTH! GET ONE NOW!
When I'm in the mood I love to have a plug plugged in. I've worn one for a few days on occasion. njoy Pure Plugs, large and 2.0 are my favs.
30+ years of anal play, and for whatever reason I still haven't used an actual plug. I've used many other things like nice shaped bottles etc. I do love bigger toys. To me, my dream plug would be my wife's hand. Now that would probably put my body into convulsions lol. But unfortunately, She's a big 6' 2" lady with hands to match her height. So I should just find a big quality plug. Like the BUTT BUD from square peg toys, or the EGG PLUG from bad dragon. Eventually I'll have one!!
Another straight male here who somewhat enjoys butt play. I have mixed feelings on it as I see so many say they cum instantly when anything touches their prostate but sadly it doesn’t work like that for me. I just got a more sensation like I need to pee or something. I also read people with smaller dicks (like me) are meant to get more pleasure with prostate play so not sure why I don’t lol
It's definitely something that takes a little time and experimentation. The TINY changes in pressure, speed, size, texture, and temperature, make for so many options to try. And then there's the different combinations of all those. Along with adding vibrations, electrical stimulation, personal muscle control (Kegels), and different body positioning in during that play, Wow, so many options!!. Myself, If I feel the need to pee, I know I have to back off a little bit with pressure, or keep that pressure and move slightly to the side. 30+ years playing and I've yet to have a prostate, or full blown orgasm without adding strong vibrations. And that's without touching my cock a single time. I laugh at the thousands of porn videos saying "Hands free" orgasm, and there's only a handful that are true to their claim. All the rest are playing or stroking while enjoying anal stimulation. Which is fine, nothing wrong with a little play to help trigger it. Then slowly train to need a little less of it over time. Or not! The main thing is to find that happy zone and/or combination of things that work FOR YOU. Read, watch videos, etc. for ideas and options. But in the end, your body will tell you what's right for you.
Thanks and yeah definitely something you can’t master overnight. I have a tendency as well to take it too fast, like trying to use the biggest dildo I can find right away…. I’ve tried both vibrating and non vibrating toys but same results so far, will just need to try ones with different shapes/sizes.
You definitely don't need a plug. step 1) grocery store step 2) beer bottle step 3) ... step 4) wash your hands.
Have you tried this? I’ve always been curious. I was afraid it would break even though I’m very experienced
I actually put a (what is that one with a bike on it?) ... I think it was fat tire... no, Newcastle. Anyway... no, I haven't myself. But you should. They make them in all sizes. I think there's actually a Simpson's episode that called a beer bottle "asshole spreader". (do NOT Google that...)
I can’t tell if you’re being sarcastic or not lol because I love being stretched out and it’s been awhile so I’m really curious
I have a butt plug metal and one that vibrates, a prostate toy and some dildos. I had a butt plug thathad a round shape base and went all way in. Scary day and trashed it when got it out. Got another one with a longer base and want one bigger
My girlfriend knows about all my toys and my previous sexual activity. I have my butt plug in right now. Its a big stainless steel one with a blue gem on the end of it. She loves it.
I have enjoyed anal stimulation since young. Have several size plugs from small to XXL along with different sized anal beads and vibrating prostate toys.