I love it but no guy has ever done it to me. Same with anal sex, never experienced it even though I want to. I do finger my own when I'm in the bathtub getting myself off, fantasizing about getting violated... Oh and I've never done it to a guy before, I've found myself tempted when giving a nude massage and rubbing around that area. I think it's hot~ I wish my boyfriend was more aggressive and would fuck me up the ass or at least finger it, our sex life is getting quite boring and I think something forceful like that would rekindle it.
...but doesn't it almost feel like a shit is coming out when you pull your finger back...? Weird, I didn't get any joy from this at all, and I used lots of lube. It's too bad, I was hoping I'd discover something pretty sweet.
No...this feeling was not joyous at all. It more felt like shitting my pants...but nothing came out just my finger. I like taking a nice big turd just as much as the next person, but sticking my finger in and out of there didnt feel nearly as good. Not good at all. I guess it's different for everyone.
My wife was the biggest skeptic until she finally relented and let me finger her ass. I learned not to push it and let things develop at her pace. Rubber glove, lube and just a fingertip in the beginning while eating her pussy. That little fingertip set off an orgasm that made bum fingering desireable. Now, she associated anal play with pleasure, not something horrible. She enjoyed it so much, she wanted me to share in these feelings too and she did it to me, which I loved. She wasn't the greatest bj fan, but she sure made handjobs "Fantastic" when she had her fingers working my asshole and prostate while jerking me off.