[Buffalo] Looking to be free sexually with the right people

Discussion in 'Gay Personals' started by soulpoker, May 22, 2022.

  1. soulpoker

    soulpoker Senior Member

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    Single guy looking to enjoy sexual openness with the right people once we get the right vibe. Particularly interested in exploring the same sex for the first time. Most anything sane, safe and discreet is open to consideration. Let's start the conversation and see where it winds up!
     
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    I’m always up for a chat. I’m sure this thread hasn’t gotten a lot of replies because most of us aren’t near buffalo haha
     
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  3. SaFari2112

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    Hello lets chat just ask anything I cannot say I am exploring this for the first time but I may have answers to what you are wanting to know.
     
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  4. thepapasmurph

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    I'm in Syracuse - and I have a good friend who lives in Buffalo.

    But, of course, we can chat or discuss anything - by the way, you could say I have been around the block a few times, so if that's a negative - that's OK.
     
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  5. soulpoker

    soulpoker Senior Member

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    Thanks for the invitation. Even from afar it's good to chat and make friendships.
     
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  6. soulpoker

    soulpoker Senior Member

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    Thanks for reaching out! I'm not necessarily looking for answers at this point other than how to find guys willing to be with me lol. Maybe there are red flags that aren't very red to me. For now that's all I got.
    Of course I might have a ton of questions after my first time!
     
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  7. soulpoker

    soulpoker Senior Member

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    What's your friend doing in the near future lol!
    Thanks for offering to chat. And unless your intentions were to cause harm and destruction or other bad things, I think experience is quite a good thing, and something toi be proud of! (And something I desperately want)
     
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  8. thepapasmurph

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    Good to get a response from you... I'd totally forgotten about this post. I'm not sure what my friend is doing...lol. Experience is a good thing... good times and bad (thankful bad times have been few and not that bad, either) I hope in the months since your first post you are enjoying your own journey - I recognize your lemon bar avatar and I see your posts. It's just good to know we are "neighbors".
     
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  9. DarNY

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    It’s tough being in Buffalo. Being a bisexual man. Especially one that is heavier and wants to dress or even be trans one day.
     
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  10. thepapasmurph

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    I can relate to you on the weight issue, Darren.
    I went through bariatric surgery in 2011 and lost a ton of weight (that's a slight exaggeration) and it changed my life. I still think I look better with clothes on due to the aftermath of losing a lot of weight - but I gained confidence and my life changed a lot after that.
    Cross dressing is one thing, and considering transitioning is quite another... take each day as it comes, and most importantly, take care of yourself both physically and mentally.
    Buffalo is a major city - there has to be some support groups or counselors available there you can reach out to for help. Don't do this alone.
     
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    I feel so alive being open sexually. I luv the the idea and the look of having breasts I fit in a B to C cup. And feel so hyper-sexual. I’m constantly pulling and touching my breasts. And would love to expose them to an open minded man willing to look at me sexually. Once I get to a weight I’m happy with I may dive into a real meeting with a fine gentleman to explore my sexuality
     
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