Breast Implants and plastic Surgery-Why?!?

Discussion in 'Women's Forum' started by livingwater, Jun 19, 2004.

  1. livingwater

    livingwater Member

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    I agree with u both Lunar Forest and Zeppelina- I can not even turn the tv on w/out seeing some plastic surgery show! I detest that...And, they are having a new surgery show come out on E! called Dr.90210- For 1 thing, I do not really like the side of soceity that stands for and condones the "Beverly Hills" lifestyle. then the media goes and puts more superficial people on tv- to show young girls and insecure people...What fucking gives? This is an issue in this country. Natrual beautiful, secure in themselves bohemian women are already a scare minority and w/ people getting surgery for fun.., natural women are also indeed becoming a minority(hippy/bohemian or Not).

    I am glad that I am not the only one that believes and promote Natrual as better!
     
  2. Kundalini

    Kundalini Member

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    I have to admit... I am small B cup
    and I would love to have bigger tits.. simply because I like them.. both my nipples are pierced and I love the way that looks.
    I like breasts and I would like mine more if they were larger :)
    I know its not natural but we all have something we would wish for :)
    Nothing huge but a full c would be nice :)
     
  3. amarylia

    amarylia Member

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    It's an obligatory question, this one. And I just wanna say people need to look after their health... then the good looks, to keep the engine working ya know. Disease, famine and stuff, that's a truly shituation... Let's enjoy our own bodies to live freely... be proud of your individuality ;)
     
  4. Lodui

    Lodui One Man Orgy

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    I'm not really that into really big breasts, I mean don't get me wrong, I like them and everything but i also like small breasts. Most of the girls I've dated have had B cups and i've dug it, its really a question of symmetry to me. I don't really like that girls can be encouraged to resort to drastic surgery to make them feel better about themselfs, But at the same time image is what it is. Its her body, and if surgery makes her feel more beautiful or whatever, I say go nuts.
     
  5. xthevalkyriex

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    Just so you know, Lodui, natural breasts are almost never perfectly symmetrical.

    I've met women with implants who felt much better and happier about themselves after the surgery, and women who ended up just as unhappy and miserable-sometimes even more so-after their surgery. If you're going to get implants, do the research, and ask yourself why you want them.
     
  6. HippyLex

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    Being sexually abused as a young teen made me feel the need to be " showy" and attract men, by feeling that I had some sort of power over them. I felt the only thing I was worth was my appearance. Since then I have gotten help from peers, and realize I am worth so much more than that. I quit highlighting my hair and dressing provocativly, and allowed myself to just be me. Now I am more comfortable and laid back and happier than ever. I for one felt that the only way I would be "liked" ( I use the term loosely! ) would be for my looks.
     
  7. Cosmic Butterfly

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    I do not like COSMETIC surgery. I think it is bizarre, and those who do it for self esteem will never ever achieve true happiness with themselves. When I was sixteen I wanted to get my nose done, liposuction, and breast implants. I wanted to be perfect. I am glad that I have realized that I am the most beautiful like this. All tho se cuts, nips, tucks, would have just proven that I had succumbed to the bullshit of society.
    When I see a woman who has had cosmetic surgeries so that she could have looked better I feel sorry for her. She is physically uglier to me.
    The most beautiful woman I had ever seen in my life was this 100% natural Goddess. She was 60 years old with silver hair down to her calves. Her skin was decorated with time and it was glowing. No surgery can ever capture the beauty of GOD/UNIVERSE. She was a real beauty, and all those Barbies will never ever touch that. Because alot of times the cover might look good, but in the inside it sucks.
     
  8. lunar forest

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    I know a women like that. I only hope that someday, that will be me!
     
  9. Lodui

    Lodui One Man Orgy

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    Yeah, yeah, I'm not boasting, but I've seen a pair ot two in my time... I'm not asking for perfect symmetry, I'll settle for the same side of the body. ;)
     
  10. Nisha

    Nisha Forlorn.

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    plastic surgery is hard to understand some times. ive seen mayn befor eand after pcitures of peopel who've gotten nose jobs, botox, etc. but you know, for a person who's hated their insanely hooked nose since their early years i think plastic surgery can earn a little bit of respect because it realyl can work wonders.
     
  11. Thethirdbenjamin

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    I whouldn't go for surgery because of the fact that theres scaring, so if you look carefully you will notice that an operation was done.

    and the average life span of the implant is 10-20 yrs so chances are you will have to go under the knife to get a second operation done.

    Besides have any of you heard about the Dow Corning breast implant case??http://www.detnews.com/2004/business/0403/20/business-97620.htm

    To be honest i don't like implants, that plus i whould honestly go for a small chested girl then girl with fake implants.

    natural is alot better regardless of the size

    Don't let breast size bug you each size has an advantage and a disadvantage,

    for example small breasts are very natural and sometimes girls can get away with not wearing a bra, and unlike big boobs small breasts don't have that awful saging.

    Big breasts look biger and fuller but there can be alot of back problems with having them and of course the saging.

    I use to like big breats but after a while i'm starting to think its kinda disgusting,

    regardless of the size i think each has an overall advantage so look on the bright side, don't let size bug you, just be happy with what you have.
     
  12. xthevalkyriex

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    I hate to tell you this, but ALL breasts sag. Bigger ones may sag sooner (though sagginess has a definite genetic factor), but all breasts eventually sag a bit.
     
  13. Thethirdbenjamin

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    they do i agree, but in terms of how much they do that depends on the breast size.
     
  14. lover/young_peace

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    I have a C cup and I agree there are good and bad sides... I can't really get away with going braless that much. It's funny, I have a very curvy body and my best friend has the whole natural/skinny thing going on. We both sometimes want to trade. I look better in a dress... but she never has to wears bras... and she gets hit on way more. I've been told the skinny look is coming back... so us curvy girls gotta hang in there ;) (I'm just kidding... I dont care about trends!) . ​
    I guess it's a women's choice, it depends on individual, but i would rather not see girls getting plastic surgery. ​
    I agree it is appaling how little girls care so much about looks, but the pressure is there! I am not particularly overweight (I checked with the doctor... everyone says I'm just curvy but not overweight) and I get guys come up to me tell me I should diet because I have a huge ass! I'm like "Fuck you! Why would you say that!" but I suspect they hate me, not my ass.... anyways.... :) ya I've had people ask if I plan to get breast reduction surgery... I'm like "no!" I mean I'm thirteen and people accuse me of having fake boobs... whoa... don't they think im a little young for that!​
    So my best friend and I discovered she gets hit on by obnoxious little boys who make rude comments.... I get hit on by dirty old men! ;) both have good and bad sides, no one particular look is perfect.​
    I used to think I was beautiful, until I realized I was alone in my thinking. But now I believe they all must be blind ;)
    Whatever makes you happy...​
    ~~~peace~~~​
     
  15. mynameiskc

    mynameiskc way to go noogs!

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    i say that whatever someone has to do to find a little peace in this life, fine with me. my mother in law got breast implants, and she's beyond thrilled with them. i have no problem with that, she was a very unhappy person, if this relieves only one part of her personal struggle so that she can take on the rest, good for her. i really don't care. she's a lovely, wonderful person anyway.

    i hadn't really considered it, except jokingly talking about getting a new rear-end installed. having my baby destroyed my body in several ways, not just externally (but hey, there are babies needing adoption!). i was watching this blurb on that show, the swan. and they took a frumpy woman and turned her into a gorgeous creature. and you know what happened to me? my stomach flopped over and i got really sad for ME! it was so unfair. i have my spot on the attractiveness heirarchy, and i just went down a rung. i was in a funk for a whole day. isn't that crazy?

    i was perfectly content with where i was in terms of attractiveness, because i knew who was better looking and less atttractive than me. i had reached peace with that. but suddenly women are able to leap frog over me to get better looking. how appalling. but it also made me notice that the majority of the women i know bitching about plastic surgery are those who are already good looking or have great bodies.
     
  16. Alexandria

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    Plastic surgery....well, I personally wouldnt do it unless I had a good reason. For me, wanting slightly bigger or better breasts doesnt count as a good reason.... But it does for alot of people, and since what others choose to do with their bodies has no affect on me, I dont look down on it at all. But I will say that I think it is a tad ridiculous....ok.....really stupid....that it has become a subject that is the premise of cheesy reality shows. Speaking of....I really hated that Swan show!
    I think Rosie O Donell said it best when she said "Plastic surgery is the new mascara." I think she is right and that is a little disturbing to me.....but to each their own:)
     
  17. LullabySam

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    I'm proud of what i look like and everything so i definately wouldnt have it dont and ive stopped my friend from having her breasts done shes beginning to be ok with her body.:)
     

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