Breaking up over anal?

It sounds to me like you've had your head kicked against the curb a few too many times.

Are you almost cumming yet?

Stay Brown,
Rev J

 

I wonder who backdoor is?

He (she?) is obviously a regular member, who uses the backdoor persona on the side, because he (she?) always knows when there's anal whore discussion afoot, and has been here quite a while, but doesn't post very much. But ALWAYS knows.

 

who cares??? end of the day

he loves ass sex - no big deal.

 

And is also psychologically quite fascinating. It would be very interesting to know who his other (presumably "regular) persona is.

 

you mean on this website???

 

Or maybe your buddy is lying through his teeth. Been there, done that, and grew out of that stage. Some guys are just too proud to admit that they love anal sex publicly, so they denounce anal sex publicly, yet privately in their own homes they jack off to anal pornos. Fucking liars.

 

Unlike you now who publicly announces that he LOVES anal sex. Never has it. And sits home alone jacking off to anal porn videos.

Stay Brown,
Rev J

 

Anal fixation is mainly caused by too much punishment during toilet training.

Sincerely

Sigmund

 

I love anal honestly because I love the way women's butts look and the anus is tighter, that's something we just have to be honest about.

I'd say if anal is something you enjoy a lot and she doesn't want it at all, eventually it will cause problems with cheating etc....

There are certain things some women don't like to do and if you're okay with that then it's cool. Take me for example my wife does not like giving head but I don't really mind because she enjoys anal and I prefer anal over head personally.
Even though she won't give me oral I enjoy giving her oral both vaginal and anal.

Sometimes she feels bad because she doesn't give me oral, I say if you feel bad about it let me put it up your ass more and she did!

 

So my update is natta.

She's still very sexual and I do try to keep anal fingering in play but, I feel I'm losing enthusiasm.

First off, she's actively trying to lose weight now and I wouldn't want to tell her how important it is for me.

Secondly, this anal thing is really getting at me.

She knows how obsessed I am with it by now and she doesn't bring it up at all.

 

Haaa.....

You should probably just tell her that you really poke a fatty's pooper. If that much isn't at least obvious, how can that be a good relationship?:daisy:

 

If anal means that much to you, tell her. Oh and it never hurts to toss salad if you want her more open to it, just sayin.

 

It can be a slippery slope: no anal now - "You treat me like a piece of meat"... Then no pearl necklaces. Then no swallow. Then no BJ at all. Then no pictures. Then no porn. Then vaginal starts to get rationed. And every time you complain it is the same, "You treat me like a piece of meat", or some variation. Pretty soon you get no sex, are paying all the bills, and she sits around telling all her friends how you are such an asshole for demanding sex all the time. Finally, she tells you she has met someone else, takes half of everything, and leaves.

Make a decision.

 

Sometimes a man's gotta act like a man. If you are head of the household and bring home the bacon, no way in hell should a bitch take control, especially if she doesn't cook, clean, or put out the way he wishes. Gotta put your foot down and be willing to ditch the bitch if she brings nothing to the table.

 

i believe she is very selfish and u have the right to leave her for someone not so selfish, anal is very important to u so if she was a good woman she would have let u have her analy when u wanted

 

So she played the whole " I didn't know you want it THAT badly " card and we've starting doing it ever so often.

I'm not going to say I made it painfully clear, I'll admit.

Plus she really opened up to the idea when we were using a toy and she kept telling me to put it in deeper until it was fully in her ass.

She's been into it ever since.

So my review is this, since this was my first anal experience. It feels amazing, and you know what? It's actually even better when you go slow and not like in the pornos. My head is quite big compared to the rest of my dick, so it takes some time to get it in, but once it's in I don't even feel the need to put the rest of my dick in. I come pretty fast ( I've gotten use to the vagina so much that I actually don't cum very often now through vaginal, or I need to be fucking for a very long time, everyone gets use to anything if you've been doing it for a while ).

So we got a new vibrator and I use it on her while she plays with her clit, so we're usually on the side with half my dick in her ass, the vibrator usually all in and on high speed and I can feel it on the other side of the anal wall against my dick.

It takes her longer to come but I can see she REALLY enjoys it. When she comes once she tells mew to stop everything and she just lies there for ten minutes breathing very heavily.


I also don't know if it's related but she started going to the gym a lot more often and has lost 20lbs in the last month.





I know this sounds like some crazy anal ad campaign but I've been around this site for years. I really feel women become more active when they're orgasming more often and triple play is the way to do it.

Anal, Vaginal+Clit= Absolute Gold.

 

so you're not also dumping her for losing that 20lbs, then?

 

She's 20lbs lighter and enjoys anal.

I got what I wanted. Merry Christmas to me.