The paying fantasy has been misattributed to me. When you say you're open to anything...Anal sex? Cum in mouth?
Good on ya! So, I'd strongly suggest that his fantasy is indeed variety, anonimity, and casual sex. I'm highly skeptical of the paying fantasy hypothesis.
If he's "on the fence" about whether he wants to cheat, then you should end it. If you stay and trust him again, he'll probably cheat eventually. From what you've said, you pretty much fulfill all his kinks sexually. If he's still looking for other women then he just wants some strange...He probably does care about you, but he doesn't seem ready to settle into a monogamous relationship. Don't waste your time.
Perfect explanation; You were looking for a kitty, and he was looking for a little pussy. Try to look at it on the light side, unless he maxes out his credit card.
Well all I have to say is that even if that does get him off reading from escort sites, could be true because I sometimes enjoy reading ads from Craigslist. Saying that though, this will eventually lead to him actually going through the deed and make one of his fantasies a reality. And if you aren't married its even easier to do. Unless he is absolutely happy with your sexual relationship. If he says he will stop believe him, give him a chance, everyone deserves one.
I hope you'r not still with this guy...no one should stay with someone who says they might cheat on you and then is dismissing your feelings about it and handing the guilt and responsibility to you. You def. don't deserve it, leave as soon as you can, he doesn't respect you and it will only get worse if you allow it.