Boyfriend says toys = cheating

Discussion in 'Sex Toys' started by Deathpotion5, Jul 15, 2014.

  1. Sallysmart

    Sallysmart Raynstorm Serenade

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    He should be glad you'd go to toys rather then gain a fuck buddy or something else real. He is a control freak. Don't marry him or let him in as a common law till you have done the whole test drive. I am with the rest,,, this guy is gonna be trouble.
     
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  2. TheOrchardist

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    I have to agree with everyone else - to be jealous of a sex toy is ridiculous. A sex toy is an inanimate object with which you masturbate and nothing more than that. He is trying to control you and has warped views of how you should pleasure yourself. Not a good sign at all.
     
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  3. Goander

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    He sounds insecure to me.
     
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  4. Twogigahz

    Twogigahz Senior Member

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    Sounds to me that someone needs to grow up a bit and understand the concept of security in a relationship. I'm guessing it's a confidence issue - maybe you can use a smaller version of a toy that doesn't challenge his manhood. A man's ego is fragile and is often in need of feeding. I've bought sweets several toys of different shapes and sizes for her to use with me and without me - I just want her to use them....to be happy. Quit fighting and meet him in the middle if he means anything to you. Maybe convince him with a nice sloppy bj and say "I can't get THAT out of a toy"....
     
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  5. Jamie28London

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    I can understand him being annoyed if you are always turning sex down with him. If every time you get horny and you use your toys to get yourself off, you will always be sexually satisfied. Then you will never be in the mood when he is about. However if you are regularly having sex together and enjoying it and the toys are what you do for masterbation, then dont see any harm in that.
     
  6. Eric!

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    I'm sorry to hear this, and wish guys like this would quit acting like a bunch a petrified sissies. Getting jealous over some damn sex toys? There's absolutely nothing wrong with you having them. What else does he have a senseless inferiority about?
     
  7. Vanilla Gorilla

    Vanilla Gorilla Go Ape

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    I'm guessing since her name is deathpotion5, her making him a cup of tea
     
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  8. Eric!

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    My thoughts exactly. What a punk!
     
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  9. Fred64

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    He has absolutely no right to tell you to throw out your toys. Imo
     
  10. Goander

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    He is insecure.
     
  11. Adamskiffle

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    He's insecure and being a bit of bellend about it.......it just depends how good the guy is overall as to whether he is worth keeping to try and work through his insecurity.

    Maybe it would help if you played with toys together?
     
  12. fjdreams

    fjdreams count chocula

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    this was originally posted in 2014! she broke up with that dude a long time ago
     
  13. scratcho

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    Either that or she's chained up in the garage!!
     
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  14. I'minmyunderwear

    I'minmyunderwear Newbie

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    i see we have ourselves an extreme optimist here.
     
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  15. Irminsul

    Irminsul Valkyrie

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    It's only cheating if you give it a name. :grinning:
     
  16. fjdreams

    fjdreams count chocula

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    My right hand is named Lefty
    My left hand is named Righty
     
  17. Tonynewyork6969

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    Their is nothing like watching my girl use a huge dildo in her pussy stretching it wide Andy then I put my cock in and shoot a load
     
  18. Motion Lotion

    Motion Lotion Banned

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    It's no shame in loving your body in multiple ways when masturbating you rock keep it up. Don't let anyone try to limit exploring your body...
     
  19. drock69

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    Your boyfriend is full of shit! Find a now one, he’s too insecure!
     
  20. MartNorth

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    I recall part of a song "Hit the road Jack."
     

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